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Virginity
17/f
I'm a virgin. Is it REALLY that important to lose it to someone you love? I don't plan on falling in love anytime soon. My first kiss wasn't special. It annoyed me at first. My second kiss wasn't special either, but I found the guy attractive and realized that was perfectly fine with me. I'm not about to go have some unsafe rendezvous with a stranger or anything, I'd just like to know.
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Ok im not saying go be a slut or anything, but i had sex when i was 16 and i was with that person for 5 years. Our relationship fell apart mostly because i cheated on him because i was curious.
I wish i had slept with more guys...
Not that i regret what happened because i believe in fate, and i love the guy im with now... but i wouldnt have been so screwed up if i hadnt been so curious about other guys.
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You don't have to be in love with the person you lose your virginity to, but it is really important that you trust them to respect your feelings. When you have sex with someone you would be surprised at how much your relationship can change, and a lot of people end up wishing they waited because of all of the drama that happened after. The person who you choose to have sex with should know ahead of time that you are a virgin, and you should be able to feel that they think it is just as big of a deal as you do.
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I guess it's not that important. People are going to do what they want to do anyway, and it is just sex. I know personally I want my first time to be with someone I love.
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dottie4
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I wouldn't say its extremely important, However I will say it's always best to wait for that special person only because when he comes and you share that moment it is more special. I didn't wait, To this day I feel sorry I didn't. I found that special person in my life and I've already giving myself away to someone who just wasn't even worth my time. It all depends on how you feel about the situation just don't do something you will regret. I still regret now waiting and it's been 6 years for me....
BahaiMa22
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It all depends on what you wanna do. If you feel it's important then wait. Mine just happened one night, and I actually had it happen late. So, who knows? Do what feels right.
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I wouldnt say it is EXTREMELY important. But, it would be nice to think back about it and say, "wow he truly loved me." or vice versa.
Sex is much better when it is with somebody that you love and loves you.
Therefore, its not that important, but it would be a nice memory :]
Good luck
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