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dont know how to say it
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 3:13 pm
so me n my boyfrend have been dating for 8 months. i really love him n tell him. i have so much feelings for him but i can only seem to get them out in texts or notes i give to him. i can never say them in person cuz my mind goes blank n i cant figure out the words to say how i feel n how much he really means to me. how can i tell him this in person without gettin at a loss for words?
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so saaadd
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 11:01 am
dear Advicenators,
do you know how depressing it's going to be pretending like i ENJOY having a long distance relationship over valentine's day? i am so done with it.
some tips for meeting guys please?
thanks
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Fighting
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 4:57 am
my boyfriend and i have been fighting alot in the last month. its always about him not being in high school anymore and that he thinks that i should be with someone in high school. but i dont want to be with anyone but him. i love him and i cant imagine myself with anyone else. well just the other day he was being really mean all day. he had to go to work so i thought he would be fine when he got off (11:30. i even asked my dad if i could stay out later (my curfew is midnight but he said 1).
he picked me up after work and he was still being mean and everything. so when 1 rolled around he basically ran out to his car and right when i got in he pulled out and drove to my house. well we talked and i told him that i didnt know wh...
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Guys
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 1:39 am
14/f
Ok so I have this boyfriend and he is the same age as me, so he is definitely an immature guy. Most guys my age are. This is just a curious question. I don't know why but every guy I've liked were so immature but I liked it. Because they made me laugh. I know most guys are immature and will always be but some guys I know don't act like that. Its just weird because most girls complain and stuff like, "he is so immature" But I like it? I don't get whats up with that. Sorry for this stupid question but I was just curious. Thanks!
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Does he still have feelings? Did he ever have feelings?
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 1:15 am
Female/ 17
So last year I met this guy. He was in 2 of my classes and we got to be really close. We had a lot of fun together and flirted alot. He'd always work with me in class and we always talked and laughed together. I started to like him. But he had a girlfriend. He found ways to text me and talk to me. but he never knew how I felt.
Then When I hooked up with my ex. At the same time he broke up with his girlfriend. He was always interested in how my boyfriend was. and he would always ask questions about my really close guy friend. he was always wondering why we were so close. and he'd get weird when I would talk about other guys,
Then when this year rolled around and he's in my math class......
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"Need Immediate help with Relations"
Posted Saturday January 31 2009, 10:59 pm
I'm Seventeen, and I've had many boyfriends okay. I mean I have had one that I'd really considered love, but everytime I would get out of a relationship I'd just say it really wasn't love. What is wrong with me? I mean I have this guy who is really sweet, and nice and perfect, he and I were dating about three months, and then a couple days back he dumped me, because I have a guy friend coming to stay with me because his mom is a real nice piece of work. Anyways, this guy is really nothing to me okay, I mean yes I admit it.. I lied and told the guy who is moving in, "yeah I love you.. blah blah blah.." But were good friends.
Problem is I have like no sympathy. I mean this amazing guy brakes up with me,and I feel worse for no...
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boys boys boysss.
Posted Saturday January 31 2009, 10:07 pm
so the night of january 1st, my best friend had a party because her parents were out of town.
there was a bunch of people that i knew of but didn't really know there.
as soon as i walked in the door there was this kid singing in the other room, and i saw him and my jaw just dropped, i thought he was just perfect.
he was cute and had good style and a really good singer.
so the night went on and later we played kings cup.
well me and this kid ended up sitting next to each other in the circle, and we were just goofing around and all that all night.
well we all got drunk and all that, and i headed to my friend's sister's room to sleep.
well this kid followed me in there as we were talking and cli...
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jealously.
Posted Saturday January 31 2009, 4:06 pm
18/f, i've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. he's always telling me how much he loves me and doesn't wanna lose me, and how beautiful i am, the whole nine yards. the problem is i have severe jealously issues, and almost ALL his friends are girls, and he is a flirt! he doesn't try to be, it's just his personality. he's not like a ladies man or anything, he only had two girlfriends before me [that only lasted like a couple months], they are just his friends, but i cant shake the issue. he is ALWAYS texting girls, and will like purposely turn the phone away from me so i cant see what theyre saying. it's not like im trying to be nosy, but that would make anyone wonder, even though he used to read my msgs when we first got together, a...
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Complicated relationship...parents don't agree!!!
Posted Saturday January 31 2009, 2:41 pm
So this is going to be long I apologize, but its really eating at me and I dont know what to do about it any more. I am dating a guy and I really like him in fact I think I love him. My parents don't and my sister deff. does not! My sister goes to my school so I can hardly even talk to him at school. He understands everything that is going on with my family and everything. My parents don't like him because he has slept with 37 girls. I know its a lot and people make mistakes he's been tested and he doesnt have any STD's or anything, my mom and sister thinks that all he wants from me is sex, all I have done at home the past like week is argue with my mom and sister, it is killing me I can't take it any more and my mom wont even let me ...
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He's confusing me!!
Posted Saturday January 31 2009, 12:21 pm
Okay so I've asked this question before but I didn't exactly word it right so I didn't really get good results, so here it is. I have a huge crush on this boy ( let's call him dave ) and he's told me he likes me, but made it clear that now is not a good time for a girlfriend, I don't really know how to explain our relationship, its pretty confusing but my friends call us "the couple that isn't dating" so that's kind of what's going on there... Anyways, one night dave and I were talking and we got onto the subject of this other boy at our school ( lets call him mark ). Now dave and mark aren't exactly friends but they are friendly, if that makes any sense. So I told dave that I didn't really like mark all that much, and dave seeme...
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Condom breaking but using a VCF
Posted Saturday January 31 2009, 12:02 pm
I am seventeen years old and my boyfriend and I had sexual intercourse last night and the condom broke, but I also had a Vaginal Conception Film in. What are my chances of being pregnant? Did I make a good choice of using the VCF?
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suprise my babes? :)
Posted Saturday January 31 2009, 11:49 am
well Okay since valentine's is coming up i've been going back and forward in my head thinking about what I should buy my boyfriend :(
the reason why I don't know is because I never bought any of my boyfriends anything . my past relationships never went well because they only wanted sex but anyways . ANY IDEAS? all help is appreciated ! :)
me:
15/f
boyfriend:
16/m
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I am so confused about my boyfriend...
Posted Saturday January 31 2009, 10:44 am
14/f
Okay, this might be kind of long. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months now and he's my first boyfriend. For the first few months everything was honestly perfect. I was so happy to talk to him and see him(we talked every day on the phone but we rarely saw each other because we both babysat little siblings)Overall, the summer was great. There were times that I would get bored talking to him but that's to be expected after talking for a few hours a day. Then school started and things changed. We were both starting HS. I was so excited; I loved HS. I made new friends, I'm in all top classes and I'm doing well, and I joined Amnesty International and Key Club. Everything was great but my bf wasn't in any of my classes s...
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is age really an issue
Posted Saturday January 31 2009, 1:08 am
My ex fiance said to me to call him when im older. We were so inlove,I don't understand why he would throw that away. Im 19 and female, he's 39, we have been together a year and a half. Is there anybody who's been in a similar situation? What can I do?
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valentines
Posted Friday January 30 2009, 11:48 pm
This guy asked me what i would say if he asked me out and basically that is like an indirect way of asking me out and i said if it was in that certain time like that day or soon then i would say no. and then he stopped talking to me that day, i felt bad because i like him and he knows that but im not ready to go out with him. Now i feel like if he were to ask me out again like specifically on valentines day then i would say yes. but turns out im not going to be in town that day so we wouldnt be able to even make plans like on a date so does that kill my chances? and hes not really a romantic lovie dovie guy but whats the chances of him getting flowers or something cute for valentines day, are there any clues that he might be trying to plan something? 15 btw.
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get it over with
Posted Friday January 30 2009, 11:44 pm
I like this guy and he likes me. Hes annoying at times and just not someone i want to be with but i cant help but like him anyway. I kind of just want to go out with him to get him over with. I just want to kind of explore him and then move on. Is it bad or weird to want to date someone just so that you can end it ?
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jerk.. but i like him
Posted Friday January 30 2009, 11:38 pm
15f. I like this guy whos nice at times and can be a jerk too. Hes a jerk in a kidding around way but i just wish he would be more serious. He says like rude things and not just to me. He told me he liked me and i told him i liked him .. and i know guys can act weird when they like a girl.. but do they sometimes act mean too?
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my boyfriend and my dad...meeting!
Posted Friday January 30 2009, 11:28 pm
okay soo me and my bf see eachother every two weeks if i'm lucky.. and there is four weeks in a month so i see him about twice a month.. well i want to see him more... like when i'm at my dads house on everyother weekend... { thats why i can't see him on those weekends}. my dad is really over protective.. he yelled at my ex who at the time we had been dating for about two months.. for us holding hands.. just only that! well my dad found out that my current boyfriend went on our first date to the movies.. he freaked! (my little brother told) well i wanted my dad to eventually meet him.. but thats ruined because when my dad has an opinion about someone it doesn't change! and at that time when i went to the movies with him.. it really wasnt su...
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Your take on this situation . Did he really asking my name or not ?
Posted Friday January 30 2009, 10:59 pm
OKAAY . :]
This is a bit longggg . just sayin' ;]
13F
I was playing a volleyball game in an away gym and my friend , Ally , had a guy friend there , Lenny . Lenny had some friends there [ who were pretty cute BTW ;) ] After we'd played Lenny came over , congradulated us for winning [ YAY ] and asked the name of Number 10 on our team for his friend , Cole [ who was espcially hawt ! ] Then , Lenny talked to Ally for a bit and Ally indroduced Lenny and I to eachother . Lenny said , ' Oh yeahh , and her too .' and went over and told Cole our names ... I think ...
The problem here is that I'm not really the prettiest girl on the team , not that I'm not pretty , [ number 10 is surely pretty ] and it...
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Loveless=[.
Posted Friday January 30 2009, 10:43 pm
Okay,first off i haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years,(15/f.blah.whatever)and it only lasted a month. I know people always say "love yourself before you can love someone else"- i do, and i have great friends and i'm really happy.I know i dont need a guy to be happy- Its just I reaaaally want to be in love! Its not helping that all of the sudden theres like romance everywhere,but me, all aloonnne!its like taunting me haha.I keep envisioning meeting "the guy of my dreams" at like the movies or the mall-because i heard if you do this you can attract it to happen-but none of it works!I can't be set up with people,no no no. I'm not ugly,i have a great personality. Its just the fact that its impossible for me to ever meet a guy ...
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