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"Need Immediate help with Relations"
I'm Seventeen, and I've had many boyfriends okay. I mean I have had one that I'd really considered love, but everytime I would get out of a relationship I'd just say it really wasn't love. What is wrong with me? I mean I have this guy who is really sweet, and nice and perfect, he and I were dating about three months, and then a couple days back he dumped me, because I have a guy friend coming to stay with me because his mom is a real nice piece of work. Anyways, this guy is really nothing to me okay, I mean yes I admit it.. I lied and told the guy who is moving in, "yeah I love you.. blah blah blah.." But were good friends.
Problem is I have like no sympathy. I mean this amazing guy brakes up with me,and I feel worse for not feeling nothing. I reasontly talked to him, and he told me that he was hurt and he still loved me and he wants to give me a second chance MAYBE. I just, like.. I don't know if I really love him, or just love the idea of him.
I don't know if I've ever been in love, or not. I don't know if I have and just deny it cause it ends or what. I'm so confusied. I hate being a teeager, I am so fed up.
Someone tell me what is wrong with me, advice, commets, HELP! I swear to god I wish sometimes I was just not here PREIOD.
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Gosh, guys really do screw everthing up dont they?!
your ex seems to be blowing things abit out of preportion, becuase if he did really love you, wouldnt he have stuck around to show this other guy that your HIS girlfriend??
and if you lied to the other guy saying you love him, is he just your rebound?
if this guy is so 'amazing' you WOULD have felt SOMETHING.
maybe this just isnt the right time for you.
if you're still friends with him in a few years, or moths depending, tell hm that you..
i dont know, DO you still care about him? if you do tell him that, but give him some time to recover first.
if you move on, nd he see's that, he should be able to move on to. Maybe he thinks he needs to wait until YOU move on BEFORE he can, even if he doesnt know it himself.
As for love, only someone whos been in love can tell you, but i think
if its love, your heart will speed up when you see him, and you will always be wondering, somewhere in your mind, if he's wondering about you too?
yoi'd probably want to show him off to the world too.
hope that helps, any more questions, or if you didnt understand a word of what i just wrote, message me
XXX LaLaLaJai XXX
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