so me n my boyfrend have been dating for 8 months. i really love him n tell him. i have so much feelings for him but i can only seem to get them out in texts or notes i give to him. i can never say them in person cuz my mind goes blank n i cant figure out the words to say how i feel n how much he really means to me. how can i tell him this in person without gettin at a loss for words?
KaylaHutchinson answered Monday February 2 2009, 12:22 am: Well,
the problem is that you're shy. And you shouldn't be 8 months into the relationship.
But I know what you mean.
I used to just think it sounded weird coming from me because I'm dating my first love and I haven't had any real dating experience BEFORE him. You just need to clear your head. Stop worrying about sounding dumb or him thinking you're weird or whatever it is you're scared of.
If you can tell him how you feel to his face, you'll break the ice and become so much more comfortable to just say it all the time. Just say what you would in a note with your words.
I hope I helped
-Kayla [ KaylaHutchinson's advice column | Ask KaylaHutchinson A Question ]
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