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Okay,first off i haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years,(15/f.blah.whatever)and it only lasted a month. I know people always say "love yourself before you can love someone else"- i do, and i have great friends and i'm really happy.I know i dont need a guy to be happy- Its just I reaaaally want to be in love! Its not helping that all of the sudden theres like romance everywhere,but me, all aloonnne!its like taunting me haha.I keep envisioning meeting "the guy of my dreams" at like the movies or the mall-because i heard if you do this you can attract it to happen-but none of it works!I can't be set up with people,no no no. I'm not ugly,i have a great personality. Its just the fact that its impossible for me to ever meet a guy anywhere! So i guess what i'm asking is- How can i meet guys at like the mall or something like that? And have you ever had a -love-at-first-sight thing happen to you? If you have,what happend? Thanks so much for the imput and advice!
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Mmkay. Cool, Yeah.
Can you skate?
Ride a bike?
Whenever I want to meet some new guys, I always go
to the closet skate park. But that's just 'cause
those are the type of boys I go for... I don't know
what you're into though.
If you can't skate... or ride very well. Just go
there, possibly with a bunch of mates, and just
hang out, check out some guys... whatever.
Sorry if I was no help.
Peace.
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You're absolutely right.
You DON'T need a guy to be happy.
Just because all your friends have boyfriends, doesn't mean you have to have one. Boyfriends can be great but you can't hunt for them.
Especially if you're looking for "the one".
They'll come to you, as cliche as that might sound.
It might be a little difficult to live without a boyfriend and you're INLOVE with the idea of being inlove.
But you're 15 years old!
I'm 17 and I just barely found someone I'm actually happy with.
I went the same amount of time without and boyfriend and all my friends would try and hook me up with their boyfriend's friends but I'd NEVER be interested.
I was in the same boat.
My current boyfriend was actually my bestfriend at one time and personally, that's the best kind of relationship to have. When you build a really strong friendship with a guy, you've seen sides of him that are the TRUE him and if it's fate, then it'll escalate to something more.
You may think "He's just my friend. I can't see him as anything more than that" and that may be true but try and be open-minded with the whole issue. Think about it.
You don't want to just go out with some random guy.
Go out with someone you KNOW. That's the best way to find love :)
Feel free to ask any further questions or update me on anything that goes on
Good luck
-Kayla
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Okay. I'm going to try helping you but I'm also going to warn you
It's nice that you want love but the more your looking for it, the less chance you have to find it.
But how to meet guys that i can't answer because i have no idea where do you live?
So be yourself
BUT
Also you have to be carefully because sometimes when someone needs/wants love badly, they meet someone and develop little feelings they get confused and think thats love
So make sure your actually in love and i don't think love-at-first-sigh exist
Good Luck
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Hello,you may feel like you are the only one with this problem but in actuality alot of people have this same problem and it can be pretty upsetting being alone. You are still very young and actually kids at your age do not share true love ,the relationships usually last for a few weeks and are gone,its just off and on with random guys. I f you want true love you have to be friends with someone first,someone that undestands you,tha you are comfortable with,someone that care for you and that loves you for you. You cant turn love off and on its rare to find true love because so many guy are still very immature and noot willing or ready to open up. Well you can meet a guy anywhere you go,just out in public a guy may approach you or you may approach him but since you are very young you obviously cant go to a club or anything so at school might be your best bet. Also when you are looking for love and for a boyfriends it usually never happens,things usually come when you least expect it I know it may be hard to get this off of your mind when you see relationships everywhere,but if you keep in mind an optimistic attitude and know that there is someone out there for you,someone special then you will feel that much better.It may take awhile for you to meet that guy but its such a refreshing and warm feeling to know there is someone special out there waiting for you,to care for you and to be there for you in every wya.dont fret your life is just beginning you are going to have plenty of experinces with guys do not worry. I am 17 and have yet to be in a relationship,I have talked to many guys but you will find that it is hard to actually meet a guy you connect with and that you know will be there for you,what keeps me going is the fact that I know that there is someone out there for everyone you just have to be patient.If you keep thinking about it and let it consume your mind it will make everything worse,beleive me I have been there,just go with the flow,go where ever life takes you and everything will fall into place and will be fine.Your time will come!!I hope this helped and the best of luck to you,if you have any further questions on this topic or any othre topic I would be happy to help just send a private message:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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i have the same problem as you! i have no idea what to say coz i dont have an answer for it obviously, but if you do get some wonderful miraculous answers, make sure to message me! </33
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