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Complicated relationship...parents don't agree!!!
So this is going to be long I apologize, but its really eating at me and I dont know what to do about it any more. I am dating a guy and I really like him in fact I think I love him. My parents don't and my sister deff. does not! My sister goes to my school so I can hardly even talk to him at school. He understands everything that is going on with my family and everything. My parents don't like him because he has slept with 37 girls. I know its a lot and people make mistakes he's been tested and he doesnt have any STD's or anything, my mom and sister thinks that all he wants from me is sex, all I have done at home the past like week is argue with my mom and sister, it is killing me I can't take it any more and my mom wont even let me talk and prove to her that he doesnt just want to sleep with me. My family is very religious and believes that you should not have sex until you are married, well I dont believe that and I am not a virgin, but I have only slept with 1 guy and my parents do not know that, but my boyfriend has made promises and showing the effort to prove to my parents that he is going to change for me, he is willing to go to church on sunday and everything and he wants to change, Im like a blessing to him, and he is to me as well..... My mom keeps targeting me and is like how are you ok with how many girls he has slept with... yeah its not ok and I understand that but I can look past that because he makes me very happy and my mom thinks he's just good at flaunting girls. I was holding hands with him at school and my sister heard about it and she went off on him and started screaming at him and called him a rapest and all this stuff I dont know how to deal with it, I wasnt to stay with him, but how do I get my family to realize that he is a good guy? Sorry this is so long.
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Sorry, but I'm with your family.
You are at school, dating someone who has slept with 37 people.
Not 1, not 2, but 37.
I wouldn't even look at someone with that track record.
but once again, another naive little girl falls into the trap of a sweet talking boy.
I'm finding it hard to believe it took 37 girls to get him to realize he wants to change for you. How do you know he hasn't done this to others and as soon as they get sexual, he's ended their relationship and already on to banging his next victim?
Your mum is right... 37 girls down the line and you think he would know what to do and say to keep you 'til he gets what he wants.
Promises don't mean anything. He has to show you. and that takes time. Effort. Trust. and I don't see how you can trust the likes of that just now.
If you want to be on bad terms with your family for a man whore, then that's your choice and the risk you have to take.
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well first of all..
i agree with the guy below me..
because he probably is after sex if he has slept with 37 people.. and that he is just lying to you about everything because that is what happened to me one time.. but what i would do is to just let him go and find another sweet guy that has not had sex with soooo many girls because i wouldnt date a guy that has slept with 37 girls!! thats just wrong!! im sorry..
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Hi, 16/m here... letting you know that if he's slept with 37 girls, he's got to be some sort of asshole that only wants girls for sex, but tells them all that he loves them and sweet talks them into believing him. I've seen it happen too many times. Ask yourself this- If he really is the sweet, compassionate man that you think he is, then how has he not been able to make a single ONE of the THIRTY SEVEN relationships last before going off and screwing someone else? He's obviously out for sex, and thats it. He'll tell you the oppositte, but if you are smart, you won't listen to him.
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