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okay. so where i live at is a really judgmental place. well, right now i'm going to early college, which is basically a private school. but next year i will be a freshman, and i'm going to regular high school. and the judging begins.. :/

Well, if you're not wearing the new hollister jeans, and shirt or american eagle or areopostale, your considered a "dirt kid".
i can get the clothes, i have name brand right now, but i need more. my mom will buy me clothes, but i just have a feelin' i wont have enough. bu forchantly i will be eligable to get a job this summer, cause i will be fourteen. and can get about 150 dollars a week, which will go to clothe,so i'm not worried abou tthat.

next off, cheerleaders, they get EVERYTHING they want, they're the complete opposite of dirtkid. well cheering is something i've always wanted to do. yett we have try-outs for this. and the school i will be going to is really stricked oabout who they put on the team, i'm afraid i won't make it. i'm taking a tumbling class starting in 3 days, which will prepare me for try-outs. so hopfully, this will turn out, and i'll make it, which is a very low chance, i'ma give it a shot.
if you kno anythign about cheerleading or anything,
PLEASE TELL ME WHAT YOU KNOW.
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Oh PLEASE don't fall into the mainstream bullshit that everyone comes up with these days. You seem to nice to turn into one of those preppy bitch cheerleaders that changes her boyfriend more often than her earrings. Come up with your own style if you must. It's not a fashion show, it's school, and you most likely will not see any of your classmates once you're through with it. You'll move on, and american eagle and hollister will no longer matter to anyone. By the way, did you know that both stores are part of the same company? most people that say "oh american eagle is better than hollister" have no idea what they are talking about, and taking any sort of advice (fashion related, or not) is not cool. Also, if someone calls you the Dirt-kid, take them outside, kick their ass, rub some dirt in their hair and say "Who's the dirt kid now, BITCH?!" i promise... you will be the talk of the school.

I hope my strong dislike for mainstream trends leads you in the right direction :]


Has anyone out there used this product? Does it work? Are there any dermatologists out there that could tell me if the ingredients in the product are safe? I would like to know because if it is good stuff I will get it. Thank you

Here is the site:

http://secure1.healthierwaytogo.com/landings/sbs/cosmetyn_01/?caCode=COSMETYN%5FCLICKB&p=0&caid=14458&cid1=0&cid2=1098&cid3=0&cid4=False&sid=&stID=60&new=1&misc3=CD56766 (link)
It's a very spammy site, and looks a bit seedy to me. Don't buy it. Pay cash for a similar product from a store like Walgreens or Cvs... or even wal-mart... :]


18/f

I've never been to a music festival or concert but there are a lot coming up that me and my friends want to go to during the hotter months. What sort of clothes should I wear?
Any examples or pictures would be greatt (link)
Jeans and a black or white tee. Nothing formal, but nothing like short shorts either. There are most likely going to be alot of drunk or high people there, so no need to be the center of attention. Just try to have fun and dress casual :]


i dance and usually when i am dancing up really high in my stomach it cramps or just has some type of pain cant really describe and then feeds down into my midd stomach or intestines and i get kinda bloated but then sometimes goes away? i get alot of gass and growling too.. does anybody know wats causing thiss? (link)
Air or gas in your stomach causes growling and small snack-like meals can cause aches. Try having more filling foods like bread, which will quiet your stomach and make it feel better :]


so this guy who ive only seen twice who keeps saying he really wants me [sexually though..] told me next time i see him i should sit on his lap and give a lap dance..how do you give a lap dance..what do you do with your hands do you just..i have no idea haha i dont want to seem like i dont know what im doing
thank you (link)
It's basically a tease, so make him want you. For instance, get close to him, but not close enough to where he is satisfied. Always stay just beyond that point, and practice with a chair if you like. It's just dancing, but alot more hip movement is involved. It's your choice whether you face him or not by the way. And also- try putting his hands on your hips, as a guy, i know that we like to be involved somehow, so maybe you could let him "steer" while you do a sexy dance in front of him. It might also help you figure out what direction he would like you to go.

I hope i helped :)


My dr gave me a Rx for a weeks worth of Medrol to help with swelling. Would it make me gain weight, even taking it for a short time? Is it going to have any type of lasting effect on my metabolism after I'm done taking it? I asked me dr if it would make me fat and she just laughed and said "no, not just for a week." I'm pretty little, so she wasn't worried, but even if it would only make me gain a few pounds, I still want to know! If anyone has taken this, or knows anything about it, that would be great. Thanks! (link)
Steroids only boost your endurance, they don't add weight to you unless you work out your muscles while on them. They cause you to work out harder than normal, making your muscles tear more than normal, which makes them repair more than normal. (this is how muscles grow) and you have nothing to worry about :]


several years ago i saw bmw that was really sleek, and jet black. even the windows were tinted extremely dark. it looked awesome, but im not sure what kind of bmw it was. does anyone know what kind it was? and if not, any suggestions of cars that look similar to this? (sleek, sporty, jet black) thanks! (link)
All i know is, i it was a two door, awesome looking BMW, it was most likely a M3.

If it was a four door, (which costs less but looks just as good) it was probably a 3 Series.

The best 3 series available i believe is the 335i, which has 4 wheel drive and a very sporty engine. One step down from there, is the same engine, but 2 wheel drive.

Either way, if you're looking for a sweet first car, go on auto trader and try to find a used black 3 series bmw with around 50-95 thousand miles on it. You'll get an amazing price and those things last for 250 thousand miles + if driven decently.

I hope i helped :P


I am seventeen years old and my boyfriend and I had sexual intercourse last night and the condom broke, but I also had a Vaginal Conception Film in. What are my chances of being pregnant? Did I make a good choice of using the VCF? (link)
basically, you were wearing two condoms total, one broke, no baby. :]


So this is going to be long I apologize, but its really eating at me and I dont know what to do about it any more. I am dating a guy and I really like him in fact I think I love him. My parents don't and my sister deff. does not! My sister goes to my school so I can hardly even talk to him at school. He understands everything that is going on with my family and everything. My parents don't like him because he has slept with 37 girls. I know its a lot and people make mistakes he's been tested and he doesnt have any STD's or anything, my mom and sister thinks that all he wants from me is sex, all I have done at home the past like week is argue with my mom and sister, it is killing me I can't take it any more and my mom wont even let me talk and prove to her that he doesnt just want to sleep with me. My family is very religious and believes that you should not have sex until you are married, well I dont believe that and I am not a virgin, but I have only slept with 1 guy and my parents do not know that, but my boyfriend has made promises and showing the effort to prove to my parents that he is going to change for me, he is willing to go to church on sunday and everything and he wants to change, Im like a blessing to him, and he is to me as well..... My mom keeps targeting me and is like how are you ok with how many girls he has slept with... yeah its not ok and I understand that but I can look past that because he makes me very happy and my mom thinks he's just good at flaunting girls. I was holding hands with him at school and my sister heard about it and she went off on him and started screaming at him and called him a rapest and all this stuff I dont know how to deal with it, I wasnt to stay with him, but how do I get my family to realize that he is a good guy? Sorry this is so long. (link)
Hi, 16/m here... letting you know that if he's slept with 37 girls, he's got to be some sort of asshole that only wants girls for sex, but tells them all that he loves them and sweet talks them into believing him. I've seen it happen too many times. Ask yourself this- If he really is the sweet, compassionate man that you think he is, then how has he not been able to make a single ONE of the THIRTY SEVEN relationships last before going off and screwing someone else? He's obviously out for sex, and thats it. He'll tell you the oppositte, but if you are smart, you won't listen to him.


okay so my boyfrined came over last night and we were kissing on my couch. and he like pulled my shirt up and started kissing my boob and sucking on it. i was so turned off by it. i pushed him off and moved to the other side of the couch it grossed me out. 1. because it reminded me of a baby getting milk.2. because thats freaking weird to me.
so my question is do people like that i mean on a guys point of veiw do they enjoy that? and how should i tell him that i think thats weird wiht out being rude? (link)
well if i were the guy i would be really put off by the fact that you immediately halted everything and distanced yourself from him and made him feel like a jerk... but his intentions were most likely in your favor considering that most girls would be okay with such a thing.

if it grosses you out, you can do one of two things...
A- Either tell him about how it reminds you of babies and make it a funny kind of thing, or
B- Learn to like it and forget about the baby stuff... You won't be producing milk unless you've been pregnant for quite a while, and he isn't trying to get any milk anyways. He just wants you to feel good, so try to have fun and you can even laugh together about how it made you feel awkward :)

I hope you guys work it out :)




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