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kissing where i dont want him to.
okay so my boyfrined came over last night and we were kissing on my couch. and he like pulled my shirt up and started kissing my boob and sucking on it. i was so turned off by it. i pushed him off and moved to the other side of the couch it grossed me out. 1. because it reminded me of a baby getting milk.2. because thats freaking weird to me.
so my question is do people like that i mean on a guys point of veiw do they enjoy that? and how should i tell him that i think thats weird wiht out being rude?
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to be honest, I would be the same way lol.
if I were you I would just tell him how i felt.
it's your body and if he really loved you he'd understand and respect your decisions.
Just tell him you don't like it.
if he gets mad then let him he'll get over it sooner or later.
most likely he'll understand.
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I completely agree with you : if i were in the same situation i would have pushed him away too.
Some girls like it, as the comments below me have said.
As for your boyfriend I suggest you tell him something along the lines of "I'm sorry but it just doesn't feel right to me." Guys mainly do it to please the girl, so he shouldn't feel bad. Or you can tell him "You don't feel ready to go that far." Either way you'd stop him.
Hope I helped! But i definately agree with you on this situation!
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Most women enjoy it very much. It actually feels very good and can be very exciting, but you pushed him away right away, so you would not know that. He should have asked tho. You need to talk to him about it, and tell him he really needs to ask before he does something like that. Boobs were designed for giving milk, but they are also sensitive and when fondled sends the pleasure part of your brain into full drive. I say try it once before you say if you like it or not.
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well if i were the guy i would be really put off by the fact that you immediately halted everything and distanced yourself from him and made him feel like a jerk... but his intentions were most likely in your favor considering that most girls would be okay with such a thing.
if it grosses you out, you can do one of two things...
A- Either tell him about how it reminds you of babies and make it a funny kind of thing, or
B- Learn to like it and forget about the baby stuff... You won't be producing milk unless you've been pregnant for quite a while, and he isn't trying to get any milk anyways. He just wants you to feel good, so try to have fun and you can even laugh together about how it made you feel awkward :)
I hope you guys work it out :)
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