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Boyfriend.
Posted Friday February 27 2009, 11:35 am
(16/f)
About a month ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. We were together for about four months, and it really hurt me when it ended. I was super upset about it, but figured I'd feel better eventually.
Like I said, it's been a month and I'm not feeling any better. I haven't talked to him much (because I want to give him some space), but it's really eating away at me and I feel like I have to do SOMETHING, because I miss my ex boyfriend SO much.
Should I talk to him about it? I was thinking of writing him a note and giving it to him (we have a class together), is that a horrible idea?
Any help is really appreciated =/
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Dating, and age differences?
Posted Friday February 27 2009, 5:20 am
Now I know that everyone has their own personal preferencese when it comes to dating. My question though is, is there something wrong with a 17 year old guy going out with a 15 year old girl? I mean do you see anything wrong with it? I know i'm going to get many different answers and that's what i'm hoping for. There's just this guy that I really like, but he said that youngest he would date is 16, and i'm 15, and he's 17. He's a really great guy. We both have a lot in common, and are a lot alike. I'm not saying that because of these things that we belong together or something I just want to know everyones ideas on this. Any and all answers are greatly appreciated, and thank you in advance.
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How do i choose which guy is for me?
Posted Friday February 27 2009, 2:10 am
This is a long long story/dilemma. So brace yourselves.
Okay, so a while back, I went out with guy A but we broke up. We broke up because of guy B. B and A used to be best friends until they both liked the same girl and B got the girl. That girl wasn't me.
So while be and A were going out, i was still friends with B and that was part of the reason me and A broke up, he was jealous of B and didn't want the same thing to happen again. before, i thought me and B would never happen..but ever since the break up, me and B have been hanging out a lot and i've just felt so......relaxed with him around. him and I are really good friends and just recently, he told me that he had feelings for me. of course, i felt an attr...
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Ex in the head
Posted Friday February 27 2009, 12:41 am
My ex and I broke up several months ago and it was a messy breakup. We have barely talked since. Now, almost a year later, I have gone through old letters and pictures, and realize I miss him terribly. Our relationship was long and serious, and we had more great times than bad, so it's hard to even justify the breakup. I thought I was over him, but now tears are coming back! Should I just throw all these things away or contact him in any way? I don't know if I should really move on or if something could happen again. (20/F)
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how can you tell if your boyfriend wants to breakup with you?
Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 11:08 pm
im a 16 female. and hes a 17 male. he acts normal but sometimes it seems like hes losing interest. just the other day he told me hes not having 2nd thoughts on us. so im not sure. but this girl txtd me and told me today that he told her last week that we broke up.well he plays around alot. and idont know if that was meant to be a joke. and sometimes he acts like hes going to breakup with me like if i ask him he goes along with it then says hes kidding. please help me! i really dont want him to break up with me. but i dont know what to do. please and thankyou in advance. oh. and if it means anything. weve been together for 2 months... since xmas eve '08
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frenching
Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 10:31 pm
17/F
tonight me and my boyfriend french kissed for the first time. and first time for me ever. we're the type of couple that can laugh about intimate things and the whole time he was doing it i was trying really really hard not to laugh because i knew i wasn't doing it right. Or i was and i just thought it was funny. I know that probably makes me sound really immature right now but i couldn't help it.
So what are you supposed to do?? Because the whole time he just had his tongue in my mouth and there wasn't any room left in there for me to do anything. haha.
help me.
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Quiet Boyfriend.
Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 10:22 pm
16/f.
My boyfriend is a nice guy and can be quite funny at times, but he's so antisocial around other people. When I'm with him it's not as bad because he makes some sort of conversation, but when there are other people he's just so reserved. And I know he does it out of fear and I want to help him because I care about him. But at the same time sometimes I get so confused because I feel like this is the way he is and that I can never be who he needs. When we first started dating I didn't know that he was this way but as we started seeing eachother more often it's become clearer. We talked about it and he says he wants to change and be more open, but I just don't know anymore and I don't want to tell him. I can't tell him that I feel...
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Serious answeres only please!
Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 8:36 pm
Ok im 18 and i have been with my boyfriend for 4 months now.In the begginning things were so great, he was everything i could ever ask for. He told me he loved me, and its not a word he just throws around, and he talked about wanting to get a place with me blah blah, perfectness.Then he got laid off his job and had to move back with his parents. Things have changed drastically, he is always so stressed out and mad. he cant get a job (we live in a small town) and he doesn't care about ANYTGING anymore. i have been so unhappy for like a month now,crying so much. he doesn't say i love you, he said he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship that he's not ready for that again(he was with his ex for 3 years, they broke up like a year ago) t...
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does he still like me ?
Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 8:01 pm
14/f.
SORRY FOR THE LONGNESS . BUT PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE .
Okaay . SO this guy named Chris and I have dated twice . I broke up with him first , in grade six , because i wasn't ready for a boyfriend . Then in grade seven , I actually started having feelings for him , and I admitted it to him. He told me the same and we started going out again . I really like(d) him and he was the only boy I'd ever felt that way for . We were in two different classes and on two different lunches too. It was hard to get together because we were both so busy. I was there for him through everything then. I cared about him alot . When he got a suspension because of some lie a girl told , i missed my bus comforting him . I also got presured A...
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somthings annoying me... could it be you?
Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 5:40 pm
this isnt your normall boyfriend girlfriend type question that your used to, no no no..
this about advicenators on love and sex related questions. some of your answers annoy me slightly, dont get me wrong when you get down to it you guys and gals have saved my ass countless times, but i was just browsing through the answers from the Sex Section and love Section and most answers to certain questions are all "Guys that age do NOT want girls your age for anything more than sex" to be really fair the question was about a 15 year old wanting to date a much older guy. but thats not the point, what gets me goin is how they'r so sure that all guys my age or at that age are all hormonal sex addicted sluts... which is far from it wit...
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finally got him...now what?!
Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 5:03 pm
15/f
So I know no one would remember but I posted a few questions up here a few months ago about this senior in my school who would always look at me but nothing ever happened..BUT we're hanging out this weekend :] and im excited but EXTREMELY nervous. we're both shy people and we have never ever talked in person before or at all for that matter so i'm thinking its going to be very awkward. my friend, who is friends with one of his friends, set us up. we're hanging out at one of his friends house whom i've never talked to (more awkwardness). I just really dont want to screw this up because i dont think i like him since i dont know him but i really want something to happen out of it. anything i could say, do, anything at all to make ...
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i need a BF
Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 4:03 pm
i havn't had a BF in like forever. my mom was uneasy with the idea of me having one in the first place and now is putting down the foot and completely disagreeing. i really want to have one and i don't know how to tell her i want one without hurting her feelings or just so she still thinks i'm still her litte girl. she also thinks that all my freinds with BFs are stuck up so that complicates things.
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I'm thinking about breaking up with my bf but I don't know what to do.
Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 2:56 pm
14/F My boyfriend and I have been going out for 8 months now. In the beginning I was so happy but gradually I started to lose my feelings for him, especially once school started again. Most of the time its a chore to talk on the phone every night and I'm just not happy. The only problem is that he's still completely smitten. He's constantly telling me he loves me and how much I mean to him and how he's so afraid to lose me. He doesn't have very good friends and besides video games not many hobbies. Basically, I'm a huge part of his life. I know I have to do this for myself but its going to hurt me so much to do this to him. I still care about him just not in the same way. We barely see each other outside of school and when we do he comes ov...
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mean boyfriend / ex boyfriend. . . . whatever he is
Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 2:42 pm
well me and my boyfriend went on a "break" he said he just wanted some time away from the relationship and stuff. we didnt talk for a few days after that because i was upset. but the next day, he still wore his dog tag to school that had my name on it. i had mine in my pocket so i put it back on. my friend asked him why he was wearing it and he said, "even though we are on a break i still love her". so we still wernt talking but the next day was saturday, we got in a huge text fight and the next day he asked me to come over. he wasnt wearing his dog tag but we resolved the fight and said we still wanted the break. we had been texting like everything was fine but then after i left his house i asked him how he was n he se...
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does he like me, or just WANT me?
Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 1:45 pm
18 female.
so i have some trust issues. never had a boyfriend. but i seriously love my best friend nick. we've had SO much chemistry between each other but the thing is he recently broke things off with his girlfriend of two and a half years. he treats me different than he treats other girls. we've only kissed once and it was just a quick little peck. we're really attracted to each other but i'm still skeptical of his "ex" girlfriend because he says their still good friends and still talk since they did go out for so long and they were each others first loves. i just don't know when he tries to get with me, is he doing it because he likes me or because he just wants to be friends with benefits? is there a way to tel...
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Navy deployment
Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 12:34 am
Someone I recently started seeing is getting ready to deploy for six months. I have yet to share with him my feelings towards him. I want to tell him before he leaves which is next week. But I don't know if I should or not. We text each other everyday and have been communicating with each other in some form for almost two months. I want him to know I will be here for him.
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playa
Posted Wednesday February 25 2009, 11:25 pm
i have a bf
i went on vaca, and i like this guy nw
he lives like many miles away but we talk all the time
and i dont think i like my bf anymore
but weve been together a long time liek 7 mths
and now with this new guy i noticed i could do better
and the new guy lieks me back
and i wold be willing to do long distance w. him
but idk waht i should do , is it worth breaking up?
should i keep living a double life utill summer when ik i can easily b/u w. him
help pls any advice possible
16/f
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Confuses on Liking Him
Posted Wednesday February 25 2009, 9:21 pm
I liked this guy for over 8 months. And he liked me, but i turned him down. I never wanted to go out with him. He then found a girlfriend because he wanted to get over me, and he still kept trying to cheat on his girlfriend with me. Now after 8 months they broke up and he's really trying to get with me again. Now that i have him, i really don't want him. He just annoys me when I'm with him. But when im away from him or he ignores me i start to like him. I don't know what to do!
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whats he doing!
Posted Wednesday February 25 2009, 4:05 pm
So my boyfriend and i were the cutest, happiest, most loving couple out there ..then he went on a cruise. now that he's back he doesn't say anymore cute things like "youre beautiful" and it seems he doesn't appreciate me as much. we used to text throughout the entire day, now he's being short and not really holding out well in conversations. this has been going on for like 3 days, idk if it's just some post vacation thing or what. please help!
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I like you vs. going out the same thing?
Posted Wednesday February 25 2009, 3:53 pm
Hi!
Why do people think you need to ask someone or be asked "Do you want to go out with me?" or "Will you go out with me?" Can you just start going out with someone, or is it not official if you don't or are not asked? My ex-boyfriend and I decided that we were just going out, but I've heard that you can't go out unless someone asks or you ask someone, is that true?
Oh, and is saying "I really like you" the same as asking someone out? Or is it when both you and the person you're dating think your going out?
I'm sorry this is kind of confusing.
Thank you very much.
13/f
~Sky
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