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finally got him...now what?!


Question Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 5:03 pm

15/f
So I know no one would remember but I posted a few questions up here a few months ago about this senior in my school who would always look at me but nothing ever happened..BUT we're hanging out this weekend :] and im excited but EXTREMELY nervous. we're both shy people and we have never ever talked in person before or at all for that matter so i'm thinking its going to be very awkward. my friend, who is friends with one of his friends, set us up. we're hanging out at one of his friends house whom i've never talked to (more awkwardness). I just really dont want to screw this up because i dont think i like him since i dont know him but i really want something to happen out of it. anything i could say, do, anything at all to make it fun and not awkward would be a big help! also we'll be drinking but when i drink i tend to get a tad bit slutty and i dont want to give him the wrong idea. i mean i dont mind kissing him although it will be our first time even talking but idk we'll see how it goes. What do I even talk to him about?! I literally know nothing about him. I need major help or else im going to have a panic attack! haha but anything will really help me out. thanks a lot<3


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InsaneChildz answered Thursday February 26 2009, 10:17 pm:
Just be yourself and don't do anything you normally wouldn't just to impress him. If you want something to happen that's going to make you happy then you must be yourself.

Second I would suggest you don't drink when you hang out with him for many reasons.
1.Underage.
2.You get slutty and i doubt a senior will stop at just kissing if your intoxicated.
3.He could take advantage of you and you don't even know him, so he could be a rapist for all you know (exaggeration)
You can always hang out with him and have fun while sober, and if he only wants to hang out with you drunk then you know hes only after your body.

So just try to relax, don't get too excited or crazy because your seeing him, and be yourself.

Hope it Helped
16/m
~InsaneChildz~

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sjack2 answered Thursday February 26 2009, 10:02 pm:
Well, congrats that you got him. hehe anyways talk about him... ask him questions. Not to personal unless he starts having the covorsation go that way. Be yourself and just let things flow. You need to relax. As far as the drinking be carefull!!!!! NO DRIVING!!! If you go all the way be carefull with that to. I am going to warn you that older guys can be selfish and stupid so be careful with that to. So to sum up relax, be yourself!!! Good Luck!

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