Question Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 10:31 pm
17/F
tonight me and my boyfriend french kissed for the first time. and first time for me ever. we're the type of couple that can laugh about intimate things and the whole time he was doing it i was trying really really hard not to laugh because i knew i wasn't doing it right. Or i was and i just thought it was funny. I know that probably makes me sound really immature right now but i couldn't help it.
So what are you supposed to do?? Because the whole time he just had his tongue in my mouth and there wasn't any room left in there for me to do anything. haha.
help me.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ebabychicka answered Wednesday April 1 2009, 7:40 pm: so your going in for the kiss... then his tongue will gently slide into your mouth. i always use the tip of my tongue to gently trace circles around his. to switch it up you just slide it around his or up and down so it feels comfortable for you. if it feels good to you then chances are it will feel good for him! theres really no way to kiss, it just comes naturally. dont over think it though because thats what ruined my firt french kiss lol. just let your mouth and tongue move the way it feels good without putting too much thought into it. everything will end up being natural and fun! :)
gatorsgirl13 answered Friday February 27 2009, 7:35 pm: the same thing happened to me and my boyfriend. i'm 17 also and our first kiss was a french kiss. it was also his first kiss. i'd never frenched a guy so i felt like it was mine. i did the same thing. i was laughing and i could feel him smiling because he knew i was laughing. i didn't really know how to react so i pushed his tongue out of my mouth with my tongue and we just went back and forth a little bit then started moving our tongues around. we know we weren't doing it "exactly right" but i think "right" varies from couple to couple. i kinda panicked right after it happened but things got much better. he didn't complain about it and we ended up being able to laugh about it. don't worry too much about it.. just enjoy the intimacy that you are sharing! :) i hope i helped a little bit! best of luck! [ gatorsgirl13's advice column | Ask gatorsgirl13 A Question ]
sally91 answered Friday February 27 2009, 1:17 am: well at least it wasnt as bad as my first time!!
my boyfriend at the time tried to eat my mouth he opened it that wide! diasterrrrr!
it sounds like you were going good apart from the laughing haha. all you need to do is when he puts his tongue in your mouth you move your tongue around his. like your playing tonsil hokey thats wat people call it. haha.
if you want to suprise him next time you go to kiss put ice in your mouth and when you kiss him use your tongue to push it into his mouth... and it will be nice and cold for him=] haha. or you can use something sweet instead like a lollie or something. thats always fun!
it will actually give you something to laugh about!
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