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i have a bf
i went on vaca, and i like this guy nw
he lives like many miles away but we talk all the time
and i dont think i like my bf anymore
but weve been together a long time liek 7 mths
and now with this new guy i noticed i could do better
and the new guy lieks me back
and i wold be willing to do long distance w. him
but idk waht i should do , is it worth breaking up?
should i keep living a double life utill summer when ik i can easily b/u w. him
help pls any advice possible
16/f
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I'm a very blunt advice person on here. First things first, get off your high horse. Saying you could do better is wrong. You basically just said your better than him.
Break up with him. It's the least you could do. Live a double life? Why? Because you get satisfaction in saying you've been dating one boy for such a long time. No. Relationships don't go that way. TRUE ones at least.
So yeah, I think you need to end it with that boy and tell him why, too.
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Seven months might seem like long to you because of the time and effort you have put into the relationship. Plus the fact that most couples at this age don't seem to last more than a few weeks.
I've been through a breakup after being with the guy for over two years. Sometimes things just don't work out. If you feel differently, it's not fair to either of you if you keep dragging it out.
If you have feelings for another guy and you are thinking about it in this way while being with someone else, you should talk to your boyfriend about how you feel.
And to answer your last question- if you are willing to live a "double life" like that: yes, in my opinion you should break up with him. It really doesn't look like you're feeling him and you shouldn't play him for a fool.
If you end up breaking up with him, you should always conduct that in a respectful way and not pull the guy apart with your words when you do it.
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Hi, well being with someone a long time isn't a good reason to stay with them - you should stay with them because you want to be with them and to be fair you don't sound that mad about this guy. Should you keep living a double life - well how is it making you feel, do you feel guilty, do you feel stressed, is it difficult? If the answer to those questions is yes then my advice is sort this thing now. If the answer is no then maybe you feel you should hang on and keep your options open. Others may disagree with me saying that but I'm not going to judge you or give you a lecture on the rights and wrongs of how you conduct your love life! I suspect what you really want to do is ditch the boyfriend and go for it with the other guy? If that's the case go for it! But do think about your boyfriends feelings and try to be fair to him. MM
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Youre a bitch for living a double life.
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