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boyfriend lies.
Posted Sunday March 1 2009, 6:42 pm
15/f
Okay well me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month. He says he would never lie to me and never hurt me and all that. Well i caught him lying to me one time and he admitted that he was lying and he said he was sorry and was begging me not to break up with me because he liked me so much. I forgave him because he admitted lying and then promised he would never do that again. But right now i am acared that he will lie again. Some guys learn their lesson and don't do it again and some are "once a liar, always a liar." So i don't know which he is. he told me he wouldnt do it again but i cant stop thinking about if he will or not. What should i do?
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making out.
Posted Sunday March 1 2009, 6:25 pm
I am 15 and havent made out with anyone yet. I dont know how. Please tell me how to do it and dont say it comes naturally. I would like steps. thanks! (:
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I need advice about my relationship, how typical.
Posted Sunday March 1 2009, 5:24 pm
I'm engaged to an amazing man. He's truly every girls dream. He's attentive, caring, sweet, thoughtful, gorgeous. We've been together since I was 20, I am 23 now, he's 26. Our relationship is good, we fight, no more than any other couple. We aren't too stressed about the economoy, we aren't rich by any means, but we have food on our table, and a roof over our heads. We can't complain. Sex lifes fine.
Only problem is, I'm not truly happy with him. I love him with all my heart, but I'm not in love. And, I just can't see myself marrying someone I'm not in love with. Call me old fashioned, but I want to be deeply in love with the man I'm going to marry. And, it's just not my current fiance.
I need some advice on ...
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Guys
Posted Sunday March 1 2009, 3:11 pm
15/f
the guy of 2 years really likes me and stuff, but ive had a ton of problems with his ex girlfriend and thats part of the reason i dont wanna go out with him. he only broke up with her 2 weeks ago but hes liked me ever since ive known him. and my last relationship i ended up cheating and i dont want to hurt anyone again, plus ive never really done well with boyfriends in the past. i dont want to go out with him, ruin it AND have his exgirlfriend kick my ass. we've jus been talking about hookin up and 'being together without really being together'
im just so confused someone help me PLEASE!
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I dont no what to do..
Posted Sunday March 1 2009, 2:14 pm
im going away for a cheerleading competition next weekend
im leaving my boyfriend home that weekend
hes been telling me he loves me so much but when hes not with me he thinks about doing stupid things
im really scared hes going to. ill be gone from thursday night till tuseday.
what should i do. please help me.
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i like someone i dont know kinda
Posted Sunday March 1 2009, 1:04 pm
okay so i just got out of a relationship and i still have feelings for the guy, but thats normal. he treated be badly and was a terrible bf. i keep daybreaming and thinking about what it would be like to have a good bf that i like alot and he lieks me and he treats me really good. i want to meet someone like that but i dont know how...is this normal?
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Not in love
Posted Sunday March 1 2009, 2:15 am
I am in a situation where I care about my boyfriend a lot and I love him a lot but I know that I am not in love with him. I have reason to believe that he is in love with me. The thing is that I really don't want to hurt him because I know that we will not last forever but I think he thinks that we might make it through high school and stay together for a long time. But at the same time I don't want to break up with him because I DO like him. I just don't know what I should do sometimes.
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jealousy
Posted Saturday February 28 2009, 11:39 pm
i've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and im superr jealous. he's never given me a reason to be but every other guy i've dated has cheated on me and so im constantly suspicious. i need a way to help feeling so jealous when he goes out with his brother or friends or whoever and im at home. i cant go with him all the time so dont say that. and i dont mean something like go out with my friends or go shopping or watch a movie... i need like a therapeutic outlet for jealousy... just something i can do at home to help my mind.. like how when you're mad or upset with somebody you can write down everything you wanna say on paper and then burn it, or have a conversation with a chair in front of you and pretend that they're sitting there a...
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He want me sexually but why can't we take it to the next level
Posted Saturday February 28 2009, 10:54 pm
Hi thanks for taking the time out to answer my question. I'm 24 proud single mother of 2. I meet a man 5months ago. It started out sexually and now i want more. He has so much to offer my kids and i not just financially but mentally as well. He gives me mix signals as if he want to be with me but i'm not sure if its just sex or not. When he comes around we always end up having sex. What to do.
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am i overreacting?
Posted Saturday February 28 2009, 5:44 pm
okay, so i have been dating this guy for 4 months now & he never wants to take me out and do what i want.. it's always what he wants. i feel like all he cares about is himself. so on our 4 month anniversary i said we should go to a movie and he said he didn't feel like it.. and we have only gone to a movie 3 times in the 4 months we have been dating and to dinner 4 times and one out of the 4 times he had a free meal. and i'm always willing to do something if he wants to do it .. like go to parties with his friends but if i ask him to come to a party with me and my friends or if he wants to go to dinner with my sis and her boyfriend.. he never wants to. because it's not convenient for him and not what he wants to do. BUT i just really f...
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my ex
Posted Saturday February 28 2009, 12:32 pm
so this guy and I, Eric talked for awhile, then we stopped talking cause he asked me to send him dirty pictures, and then i got drunk a month or 2 afterwards and i called him.. then we started talking again, and we dated only for like a week, and he broke up w/ me because he was in texas visiting his dad and we were fighting cause we hadn't seen each other.. so i was like whatever, and i let it go. then later that night, he texted me and said 'i really miss you'.. i was like wtf, you just broke up with me! the only way you can miss me is cause you're chosing not to be with me. but we kind of texted a little bit and then i started liking 2 other guys, plus him. then i stopped talking to him for those other guys. and i was drunk again, and i ...
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DOES HE LIKE ME OR NOT!!
Posted Saturday February 28 2009, 9:55 am
ok so i like this guy. and he knows i like him. (long story) so the other day my friend was texting him and she said so do you like smileygirl513?(me) and then he said yea a little. the thing is like then another time my friend went up to him and asked him if he liked me and his face like lite up and said idk. then another time my friend was like soo who do like and he said me! so like it depends who he is talking to if he says he likes, doesnt know or only a little. so whats the deal? does he like me or not?
and oh yeah he always stares at and even my friends notice. and one time i was with my friend and him and sometimes it seemed like he was only talking to my friend and not me too. and wen i fisrt went up to him he looked stunne...
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how to act around this guy?
Posted Friday February 27 2009, 11:58 pm
16/f/usa.
ive had a crush on this guy since the beginning of freshman year, then realized nothing could ever happen, so i moved on. We're friends, we talk a couple of times a week, I dont see him too much, hes a senior now I only have one class with him, and he sits on the other side of the room, so i cant really talk to him. And I have a crush on him again. I talk to him on aim a couple of times during the week, sometimes for hours, and i say hi or he pats me on the back or we exchange a few words at the end of class. He's a super nice guy, not a BAD kid at all! Takes priority in everything he does, hes nice to everyone. He's...not that typical dumbass, i mean it, he's really smart too, and me...im not the brightest crayon in the bo...
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how to help boyfriend
Posted Friday February 27 2009, 10:23 pm
my boyfriend has depression. i feel terrible for him, i'm so in love with him and i was wondering if anyone knows anything i can do to make it better? he's one of those kids that you would never expect to have depression because he has tons of friends and is really outgoing and i just wanna know anything i can do or any advice to help him get through this. we're both 16. thanks soo much.
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Moving
Posted Friday February 27 2009, 8:03 pm
Basically, me and my best friend have slowly become a little more than just that. friends. We're slowly doing the little flirting signs and dropping the hints to each other. We both really want to give US a chance, but at the end of our school year(we're in eighth grade) I'm moving to the other end of the country, and even if I stay he's going to a different school. We want to give dating a chance, but we're both really afraid we're going to get hurt when the summer comes, and we're aying goodbye.
I guess I just really want to know if we should give it a chance,get our hearts broken, but have had the good 5 months together, or don't risk it.
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Is Lusting a really bad thing..
Posted Friday February 27 2009, 7:40 pm
Hi, I'm a 32 y/o woman and have been married to my husband for about 5 years now. I love him dearly, but he just got an obession with porn. It seems like everyday when I leave to go to work he will be on the computer pulling up porn sites. I don't really want to confront him with it, because he can get very violent at times. Plus this is not the first time that I have noticed he was doing it, and I confronted him about it before, he told me he was going to stop. I guess he just could'nt do it! So what should I do?
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spicing up the kiss..
Posted Friday February 27 2009, 7:29 pm
how can i get our makeout more interesting?
my boyfriend and i have french kissed, but is there anything i can do to make it more intimate or passionate? when i kiss him it's hard for me to keep my thoughts straight and i don't want him to feel like i'm not interested if i don't respond. i'm the first girl he's kissed so i don't want to leave him with trashy memories but are there any little tips that could help me with this? thanks!
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im all alone and going completely insane!!
Posted Friday February 27 2009, 6:02 pm
my boyfriend and i got drunk together recently and got caught. now we're both grounded for a long time. my mom wanted me grounded for a month, and my dad just said i was grounded until he says im not anymore. -.-''
i have no idea how long my boyfriend is grounded. his mom at first said a month, and then she said two weeks, and then she said 2 months...im just confused.
i dont have a very big social life. frankly, i dont want one. i have a few good friends and a boyfriend and im fine. thing is, im not grounded from the phone or from my computer. im grounded from PEOPLE! i cant hang out with anyone for as long as my dad says, which could be from 1 week to 5 weeks. i usually see my boyfriend every day, and this is...
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hes "no good" and im giving him a chance.
Posted Friday February 27 2009, 3:21 pm
im 16/f
and hes 18/m
ill try to make this as short as possible.
we've been dating for a little over a month.we kinda rushed as you would say, we've been through the sex and i love you stage. and im geting kinda lost. hes on probation, and he has a bad rep of being a man whore sort of. well he gave me his password to change his about me, because i wanted to write it, so i was looking and i found sent messages that he sent girls on those truthboxes, saying, well nasty things, just weeks before we dated, and he was telling girls i love you and all this other things. we've already been through the "your not cheating on me are you" and then people all say hes not good news and i get frustrated and tell him ...
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DISLIKING my guy friends girlfriend.
Posted Friday February 27 2009, 11:38 am
18- female
how can i cope with DISLIKING VERY MUCH, my good guy friend (bens) girlfriend taylor? i pretty much don't like her, because i'm jealous of her. she's been with him for almost three years now. one of my friends is neighbors with ben and EVERYTIME i went to hangout there i saw taylor's car at bens which killed me to see. my friend plays hockey with ben and so when i go to watch i always have to see taylor and i hate it. i think she's pretty too which makes everything worse, shes an athletic all-star and a very popular girl which doesnt make things easier. its awkward when someone brings her up in front of me and ben because we have alot of memories together and he's tried to "get with me" which explains why...
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