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my ex
so this guy and I, Eric talked for awhile, then we stopped talking cause he asked me to send him dirty pictures, and then i got drunk a month or 2 afterwards and i called him.. then we started talking again, and we dated only for like a week, and he broke up w/ me because he was in texas visiting his dad and we were fighting cause we hadn't seen each other.. so i was like whatever, and i let it go. then later that night, he texted me and said 'i really miss you'.. i was like wtf, you just broke up with me! the only way you can miss me is cause you're chosing not to be with me. but we kind of texted a little bit and then i started liking 2 other guys, plus him. then i stopped talking to him for those other guys. and i was drunk again, and i called him up for a booty call pretty much, then we hung out a little bit but mostly just had sex. when i told him i wanted to stop all of that cause i really had feelings for this other guy, he came over, told me he was in love with me, and gave me the open heart necklace by kay. so i was kind of rethinking my decision again. then a few days later i gave him the necklace back and told him i couldn't talk to him. well, the guy who i decided i liked, fucked me over. so i call him crying and he was like my shoulder to lean on. then i realized how much i did miss him and everything and we go to opposite schools, so she shows up to my schools basketball to see this girl, WHO IS 14! and later that night i told him how i hated seeing him w/ her and everything. then he said maybe we can work this out, etc. then i texted him last night and asked him if he wanted to come over and he said 'no cuz she likes greg...' refering to the other girl and greg is her ex. so idk what to do now.. i really care about him, but he likes some girl and is upset that she likes her ex, so should i let him go? what do i do if he tries to talk to me?
16/F and he's 18/M
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You need to talk to him and tell him that he is to old for her... i mean when you think about it hes being a pedafile. And if you lost your virginity to one another thats one more reason. Its not like a 14 year old girl is going to have sex with him unless she has already had sex. Tell him that your sorry and that you made a big mistake by cutting it off.
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i think that if hes blind not seing you he must have no rain so if he wants to go out with this girl let him but if he calls and changes his mind ignore him cause it could lead to break ups and broken hearts again
signed mrjordan
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okaay... so basically this guy is a dick. to be bluntly honest.. u may not want to hear this, but he's totally using you. i'd drop him. you can do so much better.
if your really wanting to give him a chance tho, the best advice i can give you is NOT listen to ANYTHING he says, ONLY watch what he does. before you know it you'll see if what he's saying really matches up with his behaivor. Because its easy for him to say he loves you or misses you over a text.. but does he show that he loves you by his actions? how does he treat you?
be careful with this.. i wouldnt trust him.
feel free to ask me another question, or if you dont understand my advice..
hope this helps..
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