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using the ept at home pregnancy test, and the results in the circle show a negative but the results in the square show a vertical line... what does that mean?

looks like - l

i know a + means pregnant but they are in dif boxes? idk please help (link)
Ger an easy read test that has a + or -, or a :) or a :(!!

Then if your still not happy make an appointment with your gyno. and see if your are or arent pregnant.

Hope this helps

babysittergurl


p.s. (if you are pregnant and dont want the baby please dont get an abortion, have the baby and put it up for adoption. God bless either decision you.... I just hope you know better)


My ex and I broke up thursday 3/5 that night.. He had been talking to someone with a strange number. first told me he didnt know who it was then it was an old buddy well i found out it was a girl. he had keep asking me if i worked sunday what time was i planning on coming home for lunch etc. well i started having a gut feeling looked at his phone cut him cheating on me. and i left him the next day. I really loved this guy. i had to work the night i left. started crying at work.. i guy i talked to way before i meet my ex we started talking again.. I had strong feelings for him. the only thing we werent sure about was age. but we are okay with it. even when i dated my ex i still though about him. and i had to stop talking to him when i dated my ex (he was controling) last few nights i have been going to my friends watching movies holding each other and he gave me a back massage and i kissed him them turned into making out and then more. i dont feel bad about it.. i loved it and has made me like my friend alot lot more. and i havent been thinking about my ex.. is it wrong?? is it to soon for me?? how do you know... also i have a two year old who was attached to my ex. hes a little confussed on why we left. (link)
First off, if you loved this guy how are you already dating someone else??

Second, if he was asking you when or if you were coming home for lunch during, he was most likly cheating.

Third, if your new guy is controlling that might not be very good for you or your kid.

Forth, YOUR CHILD ALWAYS COMES FIRST. If you are going in and out of relationships you need to consider how your child will handle it and if they are happy not just you.

I know this is all harsh, but you need some tough-love to get your mind straight.

Just please make the right choose for your sake and more importantly your childs sakes.

I pray to God this helps

babysittergurl



ive been talking to my friend, who i like, for about 3 months on msn. id say 90% of the time he used to start the conversation, but now its about 50%. which is fine whatever, but i feel like im starting it constantly then he takes about 30 minutes jsut to give a response to my 'hello.' i asked him why one time and he said sometimes hes just busy.

but yesterday he asked me to get on, and i was really busy toda and so tired when i got home, but i still got on for him. i surely thought he would IM me first, but nope stayed on for 40 minutes, not one IM, so i signed off. i dunno what to do..i started crying. yeah im a baby, but i just felt so let down. how can i handle this? do i not come on msn for a few days? or should i come on and just not talk to him, cause i just have a feeling he wont im me and ill be let down. please, any suggestions. i dont want to cry anymore over someone who could potentially be wasting my time. (link)
Just leave him hanging.

By that I mean dont talk to him at school or where ever you know him from, dont IM him.

Whenever you see him just give him small glances, and if he looks at you when your looking at him, look away very quickly and pretend to be doing something.

Evientually he will be dying to talk to you just for attention.


Hope it helped


babysittergurl


i borrowed my friend's laptop and he failed to let me know that he has centos, not windows. idk how to connect it the internet. in idiot terms please!

HELP. (link)
You should talk to The_MoUsY_spell_checker..... he knows all about computers


or


YOU COULD JUST ASK YOUR FRIEND HOW!!!!


Hope this helps

babysittergurl


I had sex with my boyfriend on saturday. He has really long and gross pubic hair. Anyway, on sunday I got my period and when I pulled out my tampon, I had one of his pubic hairs on it. What am I supposed to do? Do I tell him, should I not be really grossed out cus I am. I'm pretty much looking for opinions really. Any input would be great. (link)
Here's what you do... ask him (not when your eating or on a date or something romantic) when if he will cut them down a little. Also if there was sperm on that pubic hair you could get pregnante (sperm can live on any surface with the temperatures, texture of the surface, etc...) Also to avoid all of this you and him and anyone else you two will ever have sex with...USE PROTECTION. Cause theres birthcontrol (only prevents pregnancies 99% of the time) and theres condems, lubes, etc.

Hope this helps,

babysittergurl


me and my bofyriend are on a break..
anyways idk i have never broken up really or stuff like that im not good with it or know the best way to act what to do but this is a long relationship and my first almost 2 years and were 18..

idk any tips?
im hoping this will make him realize more of me and how much he needs me
cause he started to take me for granted and i dont like that
so any ideas?
any personal experience
i will love you if you help me out, share stories hgive advice anything thank you! (link)
So... if he said it was time for a break then just move on, theres bigger and better fish in the sea.......

And if you said it was time for a break the just move on because apparently if you wanted a break you werent happy.


babysittergurl


so this guy and I, Eric talked for awhile, then we stopped talking cause he asked me to send him dirty pictures, and then i got drunk a month or 2 afterwards and i called him.. then we started talking again, and we dated only for like a week, and he broke up w/ me because he was in texas visiting his dad and we were fighting cause we hadn't seen each other.. so i was like whatever, and i let it go. then later that night, he texted me and said 'i really miss you'.. i was like wtf, you just broke up with me! the only way you can miss me is cause you're chosing not to be with me. but we kind of texted a little bit and then i started liking 2 other guys, plus him. then i stopped talking to him for those other guys. and i was drunk again, and i called him up for a booty call pretty much, then we hung out a little bit but mostly just had sex. when i told him i wanted to stop all of that cause i really had feelings for this other guy, he came over, told me he was in love with me, and gave me the open heart necklace by kay. so i was kind of rethinking my decision again. then a few days later i gave him the necklace back and told him i couldn't talk to him. well, the guy who i decided i liked, fucked me over. so i call him crying and he was like my shoulder to lean on. then i realized how much i did miss him and everything and we go to opposite schools, so she shows up to my schools basketball to see this girl, WHO IS 14! and later that night i told him how i hated seeing him w/ her and everything. then he said maybe we can work this out, etc. then i texted him last night and asked him if he wanted to come over and he said 'no cuz she likes greg...' refering to the other girl and greg is her ex. so idk what to do now.. i really care about him, but he likes some girl and is upset that she likes her ex, so should i let him go? what do i do if he tries to talk to me?

16/F and he's 18/M (link)
You need to talk to him and tell him that he is to old for her... i mean when you think about it hes being a pedafile. And if you lost your virginity to one another thats one more reason. Its not like a 14 year old girl is going to have sex with him unless she has already had sex. Tell him that your sorry and that you made a big mistake by cutting it off.


im 18/f the guy is 23

Okay so my good friend set me up with her boyfriends friend, i was informed before we went out to dinner that he already had a girlfriend (to whom he was once engaged with and they still live together) who apparently treats puts him down, cheats on him and the only reason he is with her is for stability. We went out to dinner the four of us, he paid for my meal, he complimented me on how beautiful i am, and how mature i am for my age. So we hit it off, ended the night with a kiss and i let it be known that i didnt approve of the fact he had another girl and if we were to pursue something he would have to leave her. To me he seems like a genuine guy and i tend to be a good judge of character but its just because of how many times ive been messed with in previous relationships that scares me, especially the fact that there is another woman in the picture. But i feel it was good that he could be honest with me straight off the bat. What do you think of this situation? (link)
What you need to be careful right off the back. Because hes older than you and hes living with his ex. talk to him tell him its you or him. and since hes with both of you he will likly be aggressive towards the both of you. and if you want to get with him and live with or something like that you really need to get rid of that girl or you and him might not be together as long as youd like.




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