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ive been talking to my friend, who i like, for about 3 months on msn. id say 90% of the time he used to start the conversation, but now its about 50%. which is fine whatever, but i feel like im starting it constantly then he takes about 30 minutes jsut to give a response to my 'hello.' i asked him why one time and he said sometimes hes just busy.
but yesterday he asked me to get on, and i was really busy toda and so tired when i got home, but i still got on for him. i surely thought he would IM me first, but nope stayed on for 40 minutes, not one IM, so i signed off. i dunno what to do..i started crying. yeah im a baby, but i just felt so let down. how can i handle this? do i not come on msn for a few days? or should i come on and just not talk to him, cause i just have a feeling he wont im me and ill be let down. please, any suggestions. i dont want to cry anymore over someone who could potentially be wasting my time.
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He seems like he is just not that into you. Even if you leave him hanging, it is apparent that he wouldnt be the one hurt, you will.
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I agree. Leaving him hanging is like the ultimate test. If he really likes you, it'll probably kill him that you're not talking to him.
Before I started dating my boyfriend, we were just friends, & I felt like I was always the one initiating conversations, so one morning I left my phone in my room, went in the other room for a few hours, & when I came back, he had sent me about 10 texts asking if I was mad at him, then he said he's coming over, shortly after he came to my house & we started dating.
I don't know what the deal is with guys sometimes, but if he doesn't start talking to you, don't waste your time. You could be out having a lot of fun without worrying about him.
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Just leave him hanging.
By that I mean dont talk to him at school or where ever you know him from, dont IM him.
Whenever you see him just give him small glances, and if he looks at you when your looking at him, look away very quickly and pretend to be doing something.
Evientually he will be dying to talk to you just for attention.
Hope it helped
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