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Pubic Hair
I had sex with my boyfriend on saturday. He has really long and gross pubic hair. Anyway, on sunday I got my period and when I pulled out my tampon, I had one of his pubic hairs on it. What am I supposed to do? Do I tell him, should I not be really grossed out cus I am. I'm pretty much looking for opinions really. Any input would be great.
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You should ask him to trim it.
If it causes you to not enjoy yourself.
Be blunt.
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Trim for him, and ask him if he'd be willing to try it for you.
Then make a huge show of enjoying it, and encourage him to keep himself short.
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TELL HIM! that's gross. just tell him you prefer it when guys trim. or you can be more subtle and ask him if he prefers it when girls trim/shave? hopefully he will ask the same question back and then you can hint to him that you want him to shave/trim without being mean :)
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Try to make it a sexy cute game! By getting in the shower with him. Shave yourself and then shave him! And then go have hot sex!
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let it out he will understand this is something everyone will have to do ... we will all have to tell someone the truth that might ...i said might upset them which will get over then they will have to tell you sometime in life, too. don't be scared. -livi<3
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That is quite understandable, I would be really grossed out too.
Just let him know, gently, that you would find it even more attractive if he would trim up his pubic hair a bit.
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Sex is awkward and gross in itself. So don't be too shattered by this incident.
If his manscaping (or lack thereof) bothers you, nicely tell him that you'd appreciate a little trimming on his behalf. Make it sound like it will benefit him, and he won't be able to refuse!
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Here's what you do... ask him (not when your eating or on a date or something romantic) when if he will cut them down a little. Also if there was sperm on that pubic hair you could get pregnante (sperm can live on any surface with the temperatures, texture of the surface, etc...) Also to avoid all of this you and him and anyone else you two will ever have sex with...USE PROTECTION. Cause theres birthcontrol (only prevents pregnancies 99% of the time) and theres condems, lubes, etc.
Hope this helps,
babysittergurl
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