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Break Up
My ex and I broke up thursday 3/5 that night.. He had been talking to someone with a strange number. first told me he didnt know who it was then it was an old buddy well i found out it was a girl. he had keep asking me if i worked sunday what time was i planning on coming home for lunch etc. well i started having a gut feeling looked at his phone cut him cheating on me. and i left him the next day. I really loved this guy. i had to work the night i left. started crying at work.. i guy i talked to way before i meet my ex we started talking again.. I had strong feelings for him. the only thing we werent sure about was age. but we are okay with it. even when i dated my ex i still though about him. and i had to stop talking to him when i dated my ex (he was controling) last few nights i have been going to my friends watching movies holding each other and he gave me a back massage and i kissed him them turned into making out and then more. i dont feel bad about it.. i loved it and has made me like my friend alot lot more. and i havent been thinking about my ex.. is it wrong?? is it to soon for me?? how do you know... also i have a two year old who was attached to my ex. hes a little confussed on why we left.
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i don't think that's wrong. it's good that you're getting over it fast. i think you may just be replacing your ex with this new guy though. like he's just filling your ex's place. which isn't really a good thing, but for now if it's making you feel better then it's fine. just make sure that this new guy is one that you want to be with. tell your 2 year old that people get in fights sometimes and they decide they don't want to live together anymore. just tell him that you and your ex are still friends, you just aren't the kind of friends that live together. just think about this: if you didn't have this new guy would you feel bad about your ex? like would you still be thinking about him? if the answer is yes, you might want to reconsider your situation. i also think you should have a talk with your ex. confront him about his cheating and ask him to explain himself. good luck =)
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I for one do not think it's wrong at all and no one but you can know for sure if it is too soon for you. I mean sure you jumped into something new kind of fast but are you happier? It seems like you are, you're not even thinking of your ex: a controlling guy who not only lied to you but also cheated on you. You deserve better and it seems like you're getting it. Although you may have needed time to sort things out but whatever.
Now as for your little boy, you really need to talk to him about what happened between you and your ex. You know sugar coated version. But make sure he is aware of what happened.
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First off, if you loved this guy how are you already dating someone else??
Second, if he was asking you when or if you were coming home for lunch during, he was most likly cheating.
Third, if your new guy is controlling that might not be very good for you or your kid.
Forth, YOUR CHILD ALWAYS COMES FIRST. If you are going in and out of relationships you need to consider how your child will handle it and if they are happy not just you.
I know this is all harsh, but you need some tough-love to get your mind straight.
Just please make the right choose for your sake and more importantly your childs sakes.
I pray to God this helps
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