|
breakk
me and my bofyriend are on a break..
anyways idk i have never broken up really or stuff like that im not good with it or know the best way to act what to do but this is a long relationship and my first almost 2 years and were 18..
idk any tips?
im hoping this will make him realize more of me and how much he needs me
cause he started to take me for granted and i dont like that
so any ideas?
any personal experience
i will love you if you help me out, share stories hgive advice anything thank you!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
If you're on a break the relationship hasn't been working - what makes you think it will next time? A relationship is either good, and you want to be with the person or its bad, and you need to get out - all this 'we're on a break' stuff is a load of crap!! Sorry to be harsh but I learned that the long and hard way. If you're not happy with the way this person has been with you and the way he has taken you for granted the solution is not hoping he sees the error of his ways and miraculously changes - you need to say I choose something different, something better for myself. Don't be one of these people who cling desperately to a nightmare relationship thats up and down and on and off constantly - lots of people do that - it doesn't make one of them happy! MM
]
So... if he said it was time for a break then just move on, theres bigger and better fish in the sea.......
And if you said it was time for a break the just move on because apparently if you wanted a break you werent happy.
babysittergurl
]
see well i have a bf he dose the same what i did was i just ste him strate talked to him and told best way
]
Ok i am not 18 but i have an older sister. She reminds me of you so i will share this story. She had a boyfriend that took her for granted. She moved on and he noticed that when that person is gone you feel like you need them, but she did what was right. THE END!
So if your boy is taking you for granted then leave. Dont do anything that makes it look like your dependent on him. Hey do you remember your friends from high school. Forget about him and meet up with to talk about the old days. A week will pass. If he wants you then have a talk an show him how you really feel and not what you dont feel. He will understand but if it doesn't then think about this. There is more than one fish in the sea. There is more than one bird in the sky, and there is more that one boy you like in this world.
lifescomplicated
WHEN SOMEONE TAKES YOU FOR GRANTED THEN LEAVE AND SHOW THEM HOW YOU REALLY FEEL.
]
Every relationship has it's own story, however, there are a few things each one MUST have in common in order to be a healthy, loving relationship. First thing is respect for one another. With out that, you don't have love.
If you feel like your not being appreciated enough then he's probably not respecting you like you SHOULD be respected.
When someone loves you, respect isn't even an issue.
There are SO many people in situations like this. Where people feel like their not getting the respect and feeling the love like they should BUT they've been in the relationship for so long their too afraid to get out.
This break may be what shows your boyfriend how much he loves you and hopefully things will change, but if they don't, that's ok. It wasn't meant to be and some day someone will show you why it never worked out with anyone else.
I've been with my boyfriend since the 7th grade. We're now in 11th and everyday we love each other more and more BECAUSE we care about how the other feels. I appreciate him so much. He's constantly showing me everyday that he loves me. And so am I.
]
More Questions: |