Question Posted Saturday February 28 2009, 9:55 am
ok so i like this guy. and he knows i like him. (long story) so the other day my friend was texting him and she said so do you like smileygirl513?(me) and then he said yea a little. the thing is like then another time my friend went up to him and asked him if he liked me and his face like lite up and said idk. then another time my friend was like soo who do like and he said me! so like it depends who he is talking to if he says he likes, doesnt know or only a little. so whats the deal? does he like me or not?
and oh yeah he always stares at and even my friends notice. and one time i was with my friend and him and sometimes it seemed like he was only talking to my friend and not me too. and wen i fisrt went up to him he looked stunned but idk if it was good or bad. so my question is DOES HE LIKE ME! i need advice BADDD!
BEvelyn answered Saturday February 28 2009, 5:48 pm: It sounds like he likes you, but he is a guy and guys sometimes have trouble making up thier minds. First give him some time to figure out, maybe he likes you, but gets nervous around you. Maybe he likes you sometimes and doesnt always, let him figure it out, but still talk to him and be friendly, but not overly flirty. Next, just come right out and ask him. If he likes you and if he knows you like him then he shouldnt be afrid to tell you. Its possible he likes someone else too, and is waiting around for them, or even that he isnt sure if you still like him, so before you ask him flrit alittle. I hope this helps! [ BEvelyn's advice column | Ask BEvelyn A Question ]
triquetra answered Saturday February 28 2009, 5:41 pm: When you like somebody, it's always hard to admit it at first because you don't know how the other person will react to when they learn about how you feel about them, even if you do know that they like you.
This is what this guy is going through right now and people asking him I think won't help the matter. Of course he will say I don't know because it's hard enough to validate your own feelings by yourself, let alone when somebody is asking you about them.
And the time as to when your friends asked him as well is also an important factor. If it went from 'don't know' - 'yes, I like her', then it shows that he's come to the conclusion that he likes you. But the other way round may tell you that he's doubting what he's feeling and your friends asking him those questions may not be helping him make that final decision.
When he makes his final decision about you, he'll tell/ask you when he's ready.
Another factor to this is how YOU feel about him: friend or more? Because it okay to know that you like him, but to what extent do you like him? Those are questions which you need to ask yourself. If you want to be in a relationship with him, you need to let him know so that he can come to a decision.
When you like somebody, the first thing which you do is to try and hide what you're feeling about that person, and one way in doing that is to try and blank that person because if you don't, then you risk letting that person know that you like them in some way. That could explain as to why you feel as if he's taking more to your friend than to you.
I can't really tell you as to whether he likes you or not, but from what i've read, there is a chance that he likes you.
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.