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I dont no what to do..
im going away for a cheerleading competition next weekend
im leaving my boyfriend home that weekend
hes been telling me he loves me so much but when hes not with me he thinks about doing stupid things
im really scared hes going to. ill be gone from thursday night till tuseday.
what should i do. please help me.
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Stupid things such as? Stupid things like that will get him a arrested, that could possibly cause bodily damage to his body or someone else? Stupid things like getting with another girl?
Anyway, here's the thing you should be able to trust your bf and not be so worried about leaving him alone for a few days. He says he loves you, so that should be enough for him not to do stupid things and for you to be able to trust him and not be so worried.
If its stupid things like getting with another girl, then I think you should actually talk to him about that. Because really if he loves you so much then he shouldn't be having any thoughts of cheating. Sorry if that sounded harsh.
If its stupid things that could cause harm to anything or anyone in anyway, then again I think you should talk to him, tell him how it worries you. Try and help him sort through his issues.
But bottom line it comes down to trust. Can you trust him enough to leave him alone? If you can't you need to talk to him about that and you need to try and work on that.
Goodluck!
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Well, if your boyfriend is mature, understanding, and truly in love with you (or at least really liking you) , he won't do anything inappropriate. WHY would he ruin a relationship with someone he truly likes or loves? You can't keep an eye on him 24/7, just explain to him that you like/love him... that you'll be back soon.. etc...
Think about it, would YOU do anything stupid if he were gone? How would he like it? If he does do anything, then obviously he isn't grown enough to control his hormones and be in a deep relationship. good luck!
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