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Basically, me and my best friend have slowly become a little more than just that. friends. We're slowly doing the little flirting signs and dropping the hints to each other. We both really want to give US a chance, but at the end of our school year(we're in eighth grade) I'm moving to the other end of the country, and even if I stay he's going to a different school. We want to give dating a chance, but we're both really afraid we're going to get hurt when the summer comes, and we're aying goodbye.
I guess I just really want to know if we should give it a chance,get our hearts broken, but have had the good 5 months together, or don't risk it.
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I know it's hard, but i sympathize, I went through it too.
I thought to myself, if i move and don't give it a chance, i'm gonna regret not at least TRYING.
for some people it's different.
so ask yourself, are you gonna be ok with not trying? and what if those five months become the best of your life?
Good luck, listen to your heart, it's usually right.
P.S. I gave it a chance, and i don't regret it, the boy gave me his heart, and the best times I can remember. and after that (3 years later) we're best friends, he lives in NY and I in FL.
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When it all comes down to it, eventually you know you two will give it a chance anyway. Why waste time? Just do it now!
When you move, chances are, you won't last. You'll be starting high school. Lots of new people, new boys! And that's ok.
But make the best of those 5 months :)
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i wouldnt risk it if i was you. if things go great, you two both end up lonely and broken when you move. and if it doesnt work, you could ruin your friendship.
if i were you, id just stay really good friends with him. and keep in touch when you move. maybe someday you'll run into eachother again, and this "couple" thing will be more convenient. :)
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