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Rebound, Horny, or possibly attraction?
Posted Wednesday March 4 2009, 4:41 pm
Hi i'm 15 and a girl. you see when i was 13 i met this guy and really fell hard but i never told him how i felt and eventually i got into a different relationship and moved on and he started dating a friend of mine and we got close as friends. Recently his relationship ended like HARD it really hit him. you know how first break ups are and she wouldnt just leave him she'd still flirt and send mixed messages. I stopped being her friend and spent all my time helping him and such. these past two days he told me he was depressed and really just wanted to do something physical with anyone really to possibly distract him. He asked me first if i wanted to just basically make out and such without the relationship part. but you see i'm in a relation...
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What should I do?
Posted Wednesday March 4 2009, 3:35 am
I'm 13(m) and I want to know what I should do. I like this girl and have no idea if I should just forget her and move on because of my young age or if i should go and ask her out or anything else. What should I do?
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self conscience about acne.
Posted Wednesday March 4 2009, 1:56 am
(14-f) i kno i am very self conscience wen it comes 2 being around my bf anyway and it seems like acne just makes it worse i've tried any and everything 4 acne but nothing makes it completly go away.and I just need some help,also does anyone kno of somethin i can use 4 my acne. any "home remidies"???
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Am i too late?
Posted Wednesday March 4 2009, 12:51 am
awhile back i went through a real messy break up and t top it off i rebounded off one of my best friends. once that ended this guy whos really sweet and great liked me but my bestfriend said if i hurt him too he'd never talk to me again and i didnt think i was ready to date anyway so i turned him down. Much Later another guy who had been chasing me for three years asked me out and i said yes. I;m still with him now and he;s sweet and all but he's just not what im completely attracted to. I started talking to the other guy again and he wanted advice on this girl he likes. the more he tells me how much he likes her the more i realize what i let go of and i'm still helping him to the fullest with the slight hope i suppose that he might start t...
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sexi boy thats not my bf
Posted Tuesday March 3 2009, 11:59 pm
i dont know what to do!!!! im engaged to my boyfriend of 3 years and about to be an army wife. i love him and wanna have a family and a future with him but theres one problem. about a year and a half ago we went on a bad break and i ended up have sex with this guy i go to career school with. hes really sexy and really funny. it was just a one time thing, friend helping a friend out. ever since then(a year and a half ago) i cant quit thinking about him. i know me and him wouldnt ever have a future, trust me im not his type. although i kinda wish i was. i think that its really starting to interfere with my relationship now. my fiance knows what happens and hates the kid. i dont talk to him anymore but i cant get him off my mind. i dont know w...
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why do i hurt?
Posted Tuesday March 3 2009, 11:56 pm
16/Male
ok.. so a while back.. my friend sean was dating someone named starr.. well sean's cousin krysta is my ex.. im madly in love with her.. well, krysta moved on october 2nd. ever since then my life has been tumbling.. getting worse and worse..
first i tried to get with someone named elizabeth..
we began to fight so it didn't work =/ oh well..
then sean and starr were dating [sean's like my brother] so i backed off.
but sean broke up with her last friday-[Feb.27]
so me and her began to talk [sean was already with someone else and was okay with me liking starr]
well March 1st, me and starr begin to date: we were doing great... and today [March 3rd] she broke up with me cause she sa...
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breakk
Posted Tuesday March 3 2009, 9:41 pm
me and my bofyriend are on a break..
anyways idk i have never broken up really or stuff like that im not good with it or know the best way to act what to do but this is a long relationship and my first almost 2 years and were 18..
idk any tips?
im hoping this will make him realize more of me and how much he needs me
cause he started to take me for granted and i dont like that
so any ideas?
any personal experience
i will love you if you help me out, share stories hgive advice anything thank you!
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I try to be outgoing around boys (especially my crushes)
Posted Tuesday March 3 2009, 9:26 pm
v13/f
So I go to a private school so I have to wear a uniform. So i try to express myself by doing my hair crazy cause at school we aren’t allowed to wear dangle earrings, bracelets, ring, any shoes that aren’t sneakers, neckleces, and pretty much anything that can help express yourself. So ill wear my hair really cute and be forced to take it down or not wear it like that again. Anyway i try to express myself because i want to get the attention of the boys in my grade and especially my crushes. I do get some attention but not usually from the boys i want to notice. Their names are Mark/14, Andrew/12, Charles/12. I always get Marks attention because he likes things that stand out. But Andrew and Charles are harder to get...
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like a guy who just broke up
Posted Tuesday March 3 2009, 7:42 pm
I have liked this guy for awhile now. He was in a relationship with another girl, but she broke up with him yesterday, and he talks to me about how he is so sad, and that he wants to talk to her. And I don't know what to tell him, because secretly I am happy that maybe I can be with him, but I want him to be happy too. So I told him that I was sorry for him, and I tried to cheer him up, but I don't know how I should go about starting something with him. Now just doesn't seem like the time. Advice?
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quittin time?
Posted Tuesday March 3 2009, 6:15 pm
people say that you can't really be in love until you've tested each other, till you've hit your lowest points, till you've been there with each other throw everything, till you've really wanted to just leave, but would do anything to not let that person go, and still survived. but other people say that you shouldn't have to fight for your relationship, you should want that person and be happy together. but how do you know when to draw the line? when you're really not meant to be together? when you should just let go? or when you should keep holding on?
we are in love, and we hardly ever fight, but over the weekend, we hit a pretty rough patch, and now we dont know what to do. we thought about a break, but we're scared to los...
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need my boyfriend back
Posted Tuesday March 3 2009, 5:45 pm
well, heres the situation. it is long because i am kind of an emotional wreck right now haha sorry. well, it all started 2 weeks ago when my ex decided he wanted to take a break. everything seemed to be going fine. i mean sure we had the occasional fight every now and then. but thats normal. then out of nowhere he just said he couldnt handle a relationship rite now. or he wasnt mature enough for the committment. i told him i was upset but i went along with the whole break thing. we got in a few fights while on the break because i said i would always love him. he said, "thats what i need a break from. the compliments, the i love yous, the i care u dont? i just need a break from all of that". so i tried to give him his space on t...
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text messages !
Posted Tuesday March 3 2009, 5:00 pm
Probably the wrong category /=
Okay so my mom and dad dont want me talking to this one guy so they went to verizon and got his number blocked so now i cant text or call him from my cell phone. is there anything i can type in for the number or something that will let me call and text him ! ( :
thankks .
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could this a a sign or his way of flirting?
Posted Tuesday March 3 2009, 4:07 pm
Well I like this guy from my school who's my friend and it's very possible he might like me back but I'm not totally sure just yet. There are a lot of signs that he does but I want to see if this one thing he did today in particular could be a sign. Last Thursday he kindof switched to the desk behind me in one of our classes permanently which i also think is a sign but that a whole other story. So today in class we were taking notes and in the middle of the period I realized he'd rested his leg on the side of my chair, where like his foot was resting on the metal bar but the rest of his leg was pretty close to me (i mean it kindof had to be close because his leg was like diagnol and whatever but yeah you get it haha, sorry I'm very detai...
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being gay
Posted Tuesday March 3 2009, 3:08 pm
im gay and have a crush on my best friend melissa brother robert and he is straight but wishes that i was a girl because we have all the same exact qualities that we look for in eachother. Please Help
P.S. ive never been in love before so I really want this .
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Should i trust him at all?
Posted Tuesday March 3 2009, 2:54 pm
So the thing is ive been going out with this guy for about 4 months this saturday. He was my friend before we started going out so i knew he had a "past". He really isnt a bad guy i just may be paranoid. Yah, lets just say that i was paranoid to the point that i look in his phone and found txt messages from another girl. When i confronted him he just said that his friend played around with him like that...Two days later he said that he told the girl todo that because he new that i would look through his phone. Well hes a flirt and it just hurts to see him talking to other girls he does it even when im around, he may not notice it but he does flirt. Well ive tried to stick this relationship out i really love him. He walked me home ...
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boy has a girl
Posted Tuesday March 3 2009, 2:22 pm
im 18/f the guy is 23
Okay so my good friend set me up with her boyfriends friend, i was informed before we went out to dinner that he already had a girlfriend (to whom he was once engaged with and they still live together) who apparently treats puts him down, cheats on him and the only reason he is with her is for stability. We went out to dinner the four of us, he paid for my meal, he complimented me on how beautiful i am, and how mature i am for my age. So we hit it off, ended the night with a kiss and i let it be known that i didnt approve of the fact he had another girl and if we were to pursue something he would have to leave her. To me he seems like a genuine guy and i tend to be a good judge of character but its jus...
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BJ's
Posted Tuesday March 3 2009, 12:11 pm
Im planning on giving a bj this weekend but im abit nervous about what exactly to do, it'll be my first so im very unexperienced and i was just hoping someone would have some good advice and a few tips ?
thank you so much :)
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Is he right?
Posted Tuesday March 3 2009, 3:06 am
Hey, My name's Nikki and I just got out of an on again off again relationship that's lasted for the past year and a half. During the "breaks" me and my ex would have, we would both date other people. Well, the first time we broke up, I started dating this guy (lets call him:) Alex. Me and Alex got along great, we had a lot of fun together, and I thought he was AMAZING. My ex called me one day on the phone and we started talking a bit, and he started to tell me how much he missed me and how he made a mistake and just stuff like that. Well I still liked him, so I decided to give him another chance. I explained this to Alex and to my surprise, he was really nice about it, and just said that if I ever needed him again, he'd be there. ...
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I NEED MAJOR HELP WITH A GUY IN MY CLASS!!!!!!!!!!
Posted Tuesday March 3 2009, 3:04 am
Okay! So there is this guy in my class named Mark whose 13/m and I’m 13/f, and he is so hot and funny and cute and sensitive and MY TYPE!!!!!! It’s hard to talk to him because he's always surrounded by all hid friends (boys and girls.) He has the most BEATUIFUL eyelashes in the world. And when I was at his birthday on 12-19-09 I hugged him good-bye... from the side. If his mom wasn’t in the room watching my every move I would have hugged him from the front and possibly pecked him on his cheek..... if only. The worst part is that I’m not what you would call "slim, skinny, anorexic, Paris Hilton" I’m what you would call "fat, chubby, big" and what’s even worse is that I’m the TALLEST IN MY ENTIRE GRADE!!!!!!...
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friends with benefits?
Posted Monday March 2 2009, 10:59 pm
18/f.
so i met this guy, and we have hooked up and had sex a few times, with no emotional attatchments. we don't call ourselves a "couple" but just friends. we've both agreed that we don't want to be more than this, but recently, i told him that i had hung out with this guy and he got mad, or jealous even?? i like having this kind of relationship when im not dating anyone, but if he's going to get attatched like this i don't really want to continue.
CONDENSED VERSION: should i continue a "friends with benefits" realationship if the friend in question is getting too attatched and i don't feel the same way?
thanks advicenators.
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