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why do i hurt?
16/Male
ok.. so a while back.. my friend sean was dating someone named starr.. well sean's cousin krysta is my ex.. im madly in love with her.. well, krysta moved on october 2nd. ever since then my life has been tumbling.. getting worse and worse..
first i tried to get with someone named elizabeth..
we began to fight so it didn't work =/ oh well..
then sean and starr were dating [sean's like my brother] so i backed off.
but sean broke up with her last friday-[Feb.27]
so me and her began to talk [sean was already with someone else and was okay with me liking starr]
well March 1st, me and starr begin to date: we were doing great... and today [March 3rd] she broke up with me cause she said "i need some time alone.." and she thought she jumped into the relationship too fast.. so iv broken down about 7-10 times total today, and can't stop.
its not because of today, today just enforced it.. its been falling ever since october 2nd. and now i dont know what to do anymore!
and i just.. ugh i wanna die..
i am in love with someone and now.. i just..
she lives so far away i have to move on, and even though im in love with krysta, i like starr a lot and everything happening to me, is tearing me apart
help?
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You are going through a rough patch for sure. I know its hard to believe right now, but it will get better.
There is no rule that says you have to stick with just one girl. At your age you need not be stuck to just one. Look around. There are probably a lot of girls who would like a chance to go out with you. Give them a chance!
No reason, in these days of the internet that you can't kep in touch with Krysta. Your relationship won't be the same of course, but keep in touch and stay friends.
Starr may have done the right thing. Give her some space while looking at other girls. If it was meant to be, it will work out eventually. Ask her out again in a month or two and see if she is ready. Better for her to tell you what she did now. As bad as it hurts, you want her to be good and over your friend before you get really involved with her. She may still have some feelings for him, which would be natural (think about how you feel about Krysta). Being with you right now and seeing her ex may be painful and may be taking her attention away from you.
Give it all time. Its hard to do but it will work out. Good luck.
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First lets think about this rationally . you need not be in such a rush to have agf i no how that feels then when you meet a girl she turns out to be the wrong one . youre hurting because you know deep down you wanna find someone thats right for you but i think youre afraid that wont happen dont doubt yourself be happy with being single for the moment . then maybe just maybe if one day in say a few weeks or less probably if you meet a girl get to know her first find out about her before you decide to have a relationship with her .
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Ok dude FORGET ABOUT THEM that one girl Starr sounds like a weird parson. Dude just chill. Don't think about any of that crap you’re getting to worked up. Focus on other things. Do things you enjoy besides things that involve them. And don't worry EVERY BODY goes thru romance thing. And if she wanted to brake up with you that’s her problem. Pretend it never even hapened. Just chillax. Hope ive hellped.
Mr-Fix-It
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