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being gay
im gay and have a crush on my best friend melissa brother robert and he is straight but wishes that i was a girl because we have all the same exact qualities that we look for in eachother. Please Help
P.S. ive never been in love before so I really want this .
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You can't make Robert be gay. If he's straight, he's straight. It's interesting to me that he said he wishes you were a girl. Like he would date you if you were a girl. That makes me think he might be a little bi-curious. You should keep being friends with him and hanging out. Don't try to pressure him into being gay though. This could just send him into a confusion where he doesn't really know what he wants. Give him his space and time to sort things out himself. If he decides that he is 100% straight and doesn't want to try this, don't go any further with it. Try to move on, even though you really want this. You'll have to get it with someone else.
Hope this helps!
Darby(:
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well you seem like a very nice person :) but you have to understand that this robert is not gay and there for you should not be hung up on him i can kinda understand where ur coming from i have a really good friend named monty and he is gay but i started crushing on him bad we talked though and cleared the lines in our realtionship rememeber there are plenty of people out there and true love is just waitng for u good luck and be good!
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Ok so i think you should just tell him. I mean he could llike you but trying to hide the feelings. If you really like him you should tell him and be like " i dont want you to be all awkward around me" .
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Hi,
Well Ill just say i too am a gay guy - and there will always be straight people you fancy! Unfortunately theres nothing you can do! He is not gay, your not a girl and thats that! He soundls like a good guy and very accepting though so hold on to him as a friend! And go out and find a guy you like who is a gay! MM
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I agree with the other person that answered this question. This is a bit confusing. However, I think that the best advice I can give you, is this.
First off, the only thing that you can do, and the only option that I see that you have is to not only be honest with yourself, but to talk to this guy, Robert, and be honest with him as well. Let him know how you feel and listen to what he says.
It sounds to me that this guy is straight but might be "confused" seeing as he has said he "wished you were a girl". Often, when people are in this state of "confusion" about thier sexuality, it is dangerous territory for heartbreak. He could be unsure of what he wants, and therefore, is liable to lead someone one, like yourself, and then realize later that he wants something totally different.
Like I said, talk to him. Find out where you stand and give it time. Take it slow, especially if this is your firt "love".
Thats really the best I can do. Good luck! Let me know if you need anything. Thanks!
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This is quite confusing... He is straight but wishes you were a girl, because you have the qualities he wants in a girl... does he know you're gay? Because if he said this after knowing, it might be a hint (?)you never know... If he doesn't know, then maybe he was just trying to say you're really cool... I can't suggest letting him know you have a crush because that might be coming off too strong, and worst case scenario, he'll be uncomfortable and push you away... All I can suggest is leave it alone if he's straight.. and 100% SURE he is not bi-curious.. BUT, if he is, have a talk, but don't come on too strong. Good luck!
Uniq =]
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