18/f.
so i met this guy, and we have hooked up and had sex a few times, with no emotional attatchments. we don't call ourselves a "couple" but just friends. we've both agreed that we don't want to be more than this, but recently, i told him that i had hung out with this guy and he got mad, or jealous even?? i like having this kind of relationship when im not dating anyone, but if he's going to get attatched like this i don't really want to continue.
CONDENSED VERSION: should i continue a "friends with benefits" realationship if the friend in question is getting too attatched and i don't feel the same way?
Samcia answered Tuesday March 3 2009, 11:24 am: It looks like you two are not on the same page. First of all, I do not approve of "friends with benefits," but I am not going to judge you. To answer your question, at this point this isn't fair to either of you really. It looks like he has been gaining feelings for you, and you don't want that nor do you feel the same way. I think you should talk to him about this, and let him know how you honestly feel. [ Samcia's advice column | Ask Samcia A Question ]
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