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Am i too late?
awhile back i went through a real messy break up and t top it off i rebounded off one of my best friends. once that ended this guy whos really sweet and great liked me but my bestfriend said if i hurt him too he'd never talk to me again and i didnt think i was ready to date anyway so i turned him down. Much Later another guy who had been chasing me for three years asked me out and i said yes. I;m still with him now and he;s sweet and all but he's just not what im completely attracted to. I started talking to the other guy again and he wanted advice on this girl he likes. the more he tells me how much he likes her the more i realize what i let go of and i'm still helping him to the fullest with the slight hope i suppose that he might start to like me again......i dont know what i should do, its not like he seems interested obviously and im not even single. help please
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I once heard, 'if you love someone you say it right when you feel it'. I don't think you are being fair to you or the guy you are dating. If you are interested @ all in someone else then you need to let your boyfiend know first and then the guy you interested in. If yoy don't most likely they will both find out and you lose all the way around. Be honest with yourself.
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unless the guy is seriously MADLY in love with you, if you turn him down, it trashes his ego, and he probably gave up and moved on. : im sorry, but thats just the way guys are. just subtly ask him if he still likes you, and tell him you werent ready to date back then. ask him to give you another chance or something, oh but break up with the other dude if you're not happy with him. thats kinda important. :)
take care.
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