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17/f. I recently found out that one of my really good guy friends (17/m) likes me a lot. I don't see him as anything more than a friend, though. My problem is that we have a really close group of friends (there are 6 of us who hang out all the time), and I don't want to let things get out of hand and make things awkward. He is being very, very, very obvious about this. I know that by not stopping it, I'm essentially leading him on... and the last thing I want to do is hurt him because I love him like a brother. I really screwed things up the other night... when our group of friends was doing homework on his bed, he sat super duper close to me (almost to the point of snuggling?) and I didn't do anything about it (because at the time I didn't know the extent of his feelings and thought we were just being friendly). I mean, I think snuggling is perfectly okay when it's all in good fun... I get the bad friend award, I'm totally aware. So my question is, how should I handle this situation, and what should I do if he makes any sort of move on me? (link)
You are not a bad friend, you didn't realize he was interested more. If he is a true friend then tell him how you feel. Let him know you love him as a friend and that means more to you than a relationship, true friendship is forever. If he can't understand that he is not a true friend. Be honest with him. It might sting him @ first but he will respect you for being honest. And that's what friendship is.


hi all...
i am a male of 20.
i am under a weight loss progra of myself in which i do some tough enough exercise for around two and a half hour per day andtry to have light food in my everyday diet but i don't always succeed. sometimes i get a bit carried away but still i know with my schedule i owe to have lost aroun 2 kgs weight in last 2 weeks but its not happening. so somebody recommended me to try fat burner capsules as they initiate the process but when i went to chemist to buy them he had a whole lot of range of them. what i want to ask is should i look for some particular formula or component in them which may suit me the best.please tell me some name of formula or component.
p.s. i am 90 kgs, 5 foot 11 , and want to loose atleast 10 kgs.
please help. (link)
Lingzhi! Its awesome!


My boyfriend and I dated for 4 months. We broke up randomly and he says bitch..thats why we broke up. Its totally random and hard to believe because we had dated for song long. I miss him so much and don't know what I should do. He basically hates me now for no reason. I'm totally stuck and need help. How do I get him to like me again? Better yet, how do I get him to stop hating me?
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First of all no one should be calling you bitch. And if he said that's why we broke up, what is he talking about? Most likely you are to good for him so mourn your loss and get on with your life. Sorry but him disrespecting you and calling you a bitch is a major flaw. Don't settle!!!


a few friends and i want to start a shirt company. we're located in southern california. we already have a brand name and desgins, but i was wondering if we need anything to start it up. for example do we need a license? and how do we get the shirt designs copyrighted? and typically how much does it cost for all of this plus the first print? thanks! (link)
It depends on what you are putting on the shirts. For example, a college or pro sports team you have to be licensed. It depends.


awhile back i went through a real messy break up and t top it off i rebounded off one of my best friends. once that ended this guy whos really sweet and great liked me but my bestfriend said if i hurt him too he'd never talk to me again and i didnt think i was ready to date anyway so i turned him down. Much Later another guy who had been chasing me for three years asked me out and i said yes. I;m still with him now and he;s sweet and all but he's just not what im completely attracted to. I started talking to the other guy again and he wanted advice on this girl he likes. the more he tells me how much he likes her the more i realize what i let go of and i'm still helping him to the fullest with the slight hope i suppose that he might start to like me again......i dont know what i should do, its not like he seems interested obviously and im not even single. help please (link)
I once heard, 'if you love someone you say it right when you feel it'. I don't think you are being fair to you or the guy you are dating. If you are interested @ all in someone else then you need to let your boyfiend know first and then the guy you interested in. If yoy don't most likely they will both find out and you lose all the way around. Be honest with yourself.


How can I make my style different. Everyone at my school wears uggs, Hollister, Victoria's secreat, Forever 21(A LOTT!)

What can I do to be different, or just get my own style?! (link)
You need to be yourself. Mix up different styles. Consignment shops are great. Always make sure and make you look the best you can.


what are some good names to call out during a play in say a volleyball game? for example:
in basketball to call out a name (like ORANGE) and it is a code name to try to run a certain drill to get a basket. HELP PLEASEE :) (link)
Showtime! When you run a shoot set, short middle, and long back set together.


17/f
I have known this boy for years and we have always liked eachother. finally after years of on and off seeing eachother there was always a connection. finally we are together. we are in love and talk to eachtoher all the time and text 24/7. the down side is we only get to see eachother twice a week. he is very insecure and emotionally weak. he trusts me but every once in a while he says he has his doubts and can't trust other people. it takes him forever to get over things which bugs me because i never worry about anything and i get over things quicker than they begin. is there anyway i can fix this?

thanks soo much :) (link)
I don't think there is anything you yourself can do. I think he wants to trust you, but he may have cheated before and is worried that it can happen easily. He either trusts you or he doesn't. You are a very honest person so your jealousy level is nothing. You have to make the decision to deal with his insecurities or not.




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