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anniversary..?
Posted Thursday March 12 2009, 9:40 pm
At what point does it become normal to just say happy anniversary every year and not like every month? my boyfriend used to be really good about remembering to say it every month, sometimes better than me... but we've been going out for six months and he dosen't say it anymore... he stopped saying it at five... is that normal? thanks in advance :)
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need some love in my life!!
Posted Thursday March 12 2009, 8:34 pm
I am almost 16 years old and have NEVER kissed a guy before.wtf?!! It mostly has to do with my size though. I am 5'11, very big boned and has some chubchub.But still/it is pretty pathetic. i'm not grubby, i shower everyday, where nice, clean clother, have good hygeine...and still nothing. I know some guys have liked me but i mostly just think they are too embarassed to ask me out and stuff. I'm not a mean person, I have many many friends and people and teachers talk well to me. i have never once been in a bitchy/girly fight. People like me.(yea....sounds pretty cocky) sooo what's up??..i need love!!
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ill never find anyone like him again
Posted Thursday March 12 2009, 4:33 pm
16/f
well me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago. we have been best friends for 2 years and have dated for 8 months. we know eachother inside out and hes the only one i trust. he was my everything. he was the first guy i ever loved. now that hes gone i just cant believe it. he said he wasnt ready for a relationship so i had to let him go. its too hard for him to talk to me as a friend so now we just ignore eachother. its really sad, i miss him more and more everyday i have cried everyday for the past month. i hate seeing him flirt with all these other girls and he acts like everything is fine. it kills me inside. he was the perfect guy for me and the most amazing guy in the world. he was captain of the football team, always s...
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he already has a girlfriend....
Posted Thursday March 12 2009, 4:27 pm
Ok, here is the thing. I like to think that I can give really good relationship advice when I have an outsiders view. But when it comes to my own relationship issues, I get totally lost. Its like two different things. So, hopefully there is someone that will have a good perspective on this.
I met this boy a couple weeks ago at my school event where I hosted his school. We became friends, and text a lot. Sometimes we have deep conversations, and other times we just goof around. I know that he only sees me as a friend, because he has a girlfriend and they have a strong relationship. The thing is, I really like this boy. I haven't liked a guy that I get along so well with before. Our friendship is very laid-back, and relaxed. Ve...
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He Cheated?
Posted Thursday March 12 2009, 2:30 pm
I have been dating a guy since they very begining of September all intentions on getting married. We have had rough patches. example: my son and i were sleeping, his friend and him were in the other room had taking cold pills doing air guster and drinking. he was being a jerk telling me to get out of the house etc. i stayed. it was like 3 am. My sons father keep texting me and i keep telling me to leave me alone (i know from the past that if you tell him what he wants to hear he leaves you alone) so i told him that i missed him in a sacastic way. my ex got mad.. there has been this number calling my boyfriends phone i asked him about it he told me it was leon.. leon was over and the number started calling i asked him about it he goes oh it...
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do I have a right to be a LITTLE bit angry/disappointed?
Posted Thursday March 12 2009, 4:19 am
Okay, so basically my boyfriend promised me he'd see me today, and sleep over tonight.
However just before he was about to leave, he told me he couldn't come because he wanted to do a few chores. He didn't have to, but he wanted to get them done.
It's kinda stupid, but I'm a bit disappointed and angry at him. I didn't show that to him, I told him it was fine and I understood, because it'd be silly to actually argue with him over it.
But I feel guilty for feeling this way, it's not his fault.
I know it's pathetic, but I seriously wouldn't have cared if he said "I can't see you today, I have stuff to do"
It was that he was like "Yeah sure! Promise I'll s...
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how do i deal with my bf's ex?
Posted Thursday March 12 2009, 1:26 am
18 Female,
Okay so I've been with my boyfriend since the start of march & so far so good...BUT he and his ex are still friends. I understand he can't just not talk to her ever again because they dated for like 4 years but her flirting with him & text msgs asking to stay at his house, Im getting upset over it. Im not the type to get angry and start a fight, I usually get upset & become quiet so Im not going to argue with my boyfriend about it. But i obviously need to deal with the fact that they're going to be friends.
He says theres nothing going on between them anymore, & that he's friends with all his ex's and they don't do anything except be friends. He told me he won't go back to his recent...
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Im falling for him
Posted Wednesday March 11 2009, 11:59 pm
So i met this guy and he is really sweet.... I didnt think I was gonna fall too hard for him but i think did. He's really nice to me and we have good conversations. I sometimes picture him as like a best friend that i can go shopping with and he can help me pick out an outfit or maybe we could go to the movies and just have fun.... he is leaving soon for a few months and its kinda got me down in the dumps... Im really confused about this... do i have feelings for him or do i not and what do i do or say.... I dont know really just let me know what you think
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Posted Wednesday March 11 2009, 10:37 pm
Ok, I know that I should already have the answer to this. I am wondering Am I being dumb? Am I being played?
My husband of 8 years told me three months ago he had been cheating on me for a year. I was pregnate with our son when he started. Actually he started two weeks before I delivard him. I have kicked him out. Everyone says I should leave him. But he seems to want to come over when the kids are not home to be with me. He has started calling me a lot during the day. He even planned a family trip while are oldest is on spring break. I feel I am getting mixed signals. I know he is still having sex with her. He tells me he still loves me.. I have started not taking his calls, because why should I. I thought I should try and move on...
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18 years old...and never been kissed.
Posted Wednesday March 11 2009, 10:30 pm
I am 18 years old, female, and to this day, I have never even had my first kiss. Is it just me, or is that weird?
And no, I don't consider myself unattractive. I have lots of friends, both boy and girl. I'm of average build and (I've been told that) I'm "good-looking". Even though I've had lots of guy friends in my life, I have never had a relationship come out of any of them. They, and my girl-friends tell me that I'm too much like "one of their buddies" for them to consider it.
I'm in university studying music. This year I would like to try and start making friends with guys who could could be my boyfriend. Any suggestions?
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i love you
Posted Wednesday March 11 2009, 10:24 pm
this is mostly meant for those who have been in a relationship for a while, but anyone can answer. when(how many months) did you first tell your boyfriend/girlfriend you love him/her? thanks in advance.
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best friends ex
Posted Wednesday March 11 2009, 8:37 pm
i really like my best friends ex. she broke up with him and they dont talk much anymore. ive been talking to him a lot, and giving him a ride home after school for the past week. hes the nicest guy ive ever met, and im not over exgerating. hes differnt than other guys and respects girls and is a vigrin and wants to find a girl to be with, haha not kidding. he has a great sense of humor and is really nice and visits me at work, i could go on and on. i dont know if hes just being a good friend or if hes actually intrested. i guess its weird cause he dated my friend, but im definitely willing to work around that. should i keep trying for him or give up?
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do they like you as a friend?
Posted Wednesday March 11 2009, 6:47 pm
How can you tell if a guy you're pretty good friends with, but also have a crush on, only sees you as a friend? He doesn't know I like him and I think he might too but I'm not sure. I already know what signs to look for to figure out if he likes me but i'm not good at this and I really need help figuring this out so i want to know how to tell if he just sees you as a friend. Please please help I'm so bad at this and I'm having trouble getting through to him as well =/
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Is that it?
Posted Wednesday March 11 2009, 5:25 pm
I'm so in love with him...but recently we just lost contact.He hasn't replied to any of my mails for at least two weeks.We kinda live really far away from each other,but his mom is from my country so I get to see him once a year,and we spend about 4 months hanging out and stuff.I've developed this intense feeling for him and I can't get him out of my mind,not for a second.Recently he admitted he felt the same way about me.We were both very happy about it and we kept on counting days 'till we are finally reunited.
And then,all of a sudden I just lost contact with him.I don't know how often he checks his mail,but he always replied soon after he got the mail.It has never been this long that I haven't heard from him,and I'm wondering is ...
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Fluttering heart...
Posted Wednesday March 11 2009, 4:55 pm
So sometimes when I see ANY boy I know that I see outside of school (or even just when I make eye contact) my heart flutters. Even if it's like the nerdiest, ugliest, weirdest (etc...) boy from my school, my heart still skips a beat. It's so weird and annoying! I don't know why this happens! I know I can't exactly stop it from happening, but can someone at least explain why this happens?? Thank you very much!
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idk what to do about him...
Posted Wednesday March 11 2009, 3:35 pm
okay so im a sophmore in highschool and theres this guy who is a frehsman in college. we have known each other for over a year and we talk honestly, ALL the time. We talk about everything and anything, hes so easy to talk to and hes really fun. The only problem is he has a girlfriend and we never talk about anything having to do with relationships but it just seems like hes been very flirty lately. Example, we video chatted but his girlfriend was in the room so he didnt want to talk so she would know i guess? but i could talk to him (he would have ear phones).it made me a little uncomfortable and that is the first time something like that has happened. anyways my friend thinks he likes me since hes been flirty lately and since we always alw...
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annoying girl man stealer
Posted Wednesday March 11 2009, 2:57 pm
well my boyfriend or ex boyfriend ( we were dating and went on a break but are now trying to figure things out because we still love eachother but we arent officially dating again) whatever he is, has been talking to this girl he used to hook up with ALOT. he pretty much hooked up with her all while we were talking. and he told me about it and it sounded like she was just another girl. so i didnt care because me and my bf wernt even dating at the time. we were just best friends so he told me everything. well from what he told me, he had stopped hooking up with her a week before we started dating. while we were dating she always told me he talked to her and when i asked him, he didnt deny it. she said he would ask her how she was and he woul...
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14 year old in trouble!
Posted Wednesday March 11 2009, 2:04 pm
Hello, i was wondering if i could have opinions :]
..do you think its wierd for 14 year olds to have sex? cause thats all people talk about on here & i just wanted to know what people think about the subject.
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this kid i know
Posted Wednesday March 11 2009, 2:03 pm
ok here is the thing there is this kid on my bus and he flirts with me magerly. i am single but i like someone and they like me back. but this kid(tim) is really annoying he will sit with me when there are like 10 other seats open and he will touch my hair(it is really uncomfortable) and when he goes to get off he says i will miss you. i dont like this kid at all except for a friend how do i get rid of him wihtout hurting him or having it feel akward??? please help
--Sam
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Never see him again
Posted Wednesday March 11 2009, 10:08 am
I have this major crush on this boy/guy who i'll never see again. i saw him on campus this week, but i've never seen him before so chances i'll see him again is soo non-existant.
he knows i saw him and he knows i was looking at him. he's 5 years older than me (and that's not a problem) but i think he may have a girlfriend. i added him on myspace but he has tons of friends and im pretty sure he'll never notice me.
honestly i think i just need to get over it. should i just forget about it? I know it'll take a few weeks to forget about him....so what should i do?
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