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Never see him again


Question Posted Wednesday March 11 2009, 10:08 am

I have this major crush on this boy/guy who i'll never see again. i saw him on campus this week, but i've never seen him before so chances i'll see him again is soo non-existant.

he knows i saw him and he knows i was looking at him. he's 5 years older than me (and that's not a problem) but i think he may have a girlfriend. i added him on myspace but he has tons of friends and im pretty sure he'll never notice me.

honestly i think i just need to get over it. should i just forget about it? I know it'll take a few weeks to forget about him....so what should i do?


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boyycrazy answered Thursday March 12 2009, 11:05 pm:
i know the feeling.
i say look for a guy that you can actually get
with. this guy is just an obsession [i dont mean to be harsh but this happened to me and i would not stop thinking about him!] but i was serious to myself. i eventully got over him after like 2 weeks, dont worry about it..it'll eventually go away

boyycrazy :]

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laynemayhem answered Thursday March 12 2009, 12:14 pm:
since you two didnt develope a relationship, you didnt chat, you didnt say hi, and you only added him on myspace, it shouldnt take too long to get over him. if it does, im sorry but thats kind of pitiful.

what you should do is, try to contact him on myspace. tell him you noticed him on the campus and ask him if he was just visiting or something. dont sound creepy though. but you seriously cant be hooked on him just after looking at him for a while..unless you're in a fairytale. real life doesnt really work that way, sorry. :

i hope it all works out for you. :) take care!

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TheMaster answered Wednesday March 11 2009, 4:42 pm:
If you feel this strongly about the guy try and find him. Hang out without being to obvious. Maybe he will respond. It can't hurt to try. What if he was to end up being the love of your life? I met my wife right before she was to be married. She then decided to become "un-engaged" In other words, don't let the girlfriend stop you! Like the old saying goes,"All is fair in love and war"
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