this is mostly meant for those who have been in a relationship for a while, but anyone can answer. when(how many months) did you first tell your boyfriend/girlfriend you love him/her? thanks in advance.
belvilal answered Thursday March 12 2009, 7:03 pm: I love you can come at different times in any relationship. I fell in love with my boyfriend before we had been together long. We were friends then we decided to be a couple and everything fell into place, I think it was about a month. Which I know seems kind of fast, I don't think it matters when just on how you feel, but don't say I love you to someone if you don't really mean it because it will come back as a negative in the end.
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JaymeLynn answered Thursday March 12 2009, 3:24 pm: Well, I fell for my boyfriend way before we actually started a relationship. I would always tell him I loved him but I guess I made it out to be more of a friend type of love. After we became a couple, I waited a long time to tell him. One day he told me first, and I told him that I was in love with him and had been for a long time, I just didn't know when the right time would come for me to express that to him. He knew all along, though. haha. It was a cute moment, but embarassing at the same time, you know? I thought I was hiding something, but he knew exactly how I felt all along. We've been going strong for 9 months, and I hope our journey continues.. :) [ JaymeLynn's advice column | Ask JaymeLynn A Question ]
amberTHEtherapist answered Thursday March 12 2009, 12:14 pm: Well i agree with this other girl that answered this, but i told my boyfriend after a month that i loved him cause i always used to say it to my other boyfriends just to say it, but when i said it for the first time to my boyfriend this time, I realllllly meant it & i just got this feeling and i know it was love. But i have been with him for almost 5 months now, and its been amazing! But yeah, theres really no certain time and place to say it, but just do it when your ready to ;]
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Sami143 answered Thursday March 12 2009, 11:23 am: Well honestly it is when you feel that you do love them, no one can tell you when the time is right to tell them, if that makes any sense... But like with me and my boyfriend, we have been dating for a little over the year, and it was like our 3rd or 4th date and when he went to kiss me goodbye i said "i love you" and i have never been one to just throw that out there, it has to mean something and it just came out, and i have been with him ever since. So really its just when you feel that your feelings are true and your comfortable. Hope i helped =] [ Sami143's advice column | Ask Sami143 A Question ]
jayz answered Thursday March 12 2009, 5:25 am: hey wats up, well in my mind its when you feel ready to say it, i know its only 3 little letters but it has a lot of meaning behide it so if u ask me its when you feel ready in my mind there is no real time tabel [ jayz's advice column | Ask jayz A Question ]
sia answered Thursday March 12 2009, 4:03 am: The word I love you are soemthing to be taken seriously because remember once you say it you cant go back so be sure that you know that the other half really likes you before you say it because they may get alittle scared after you say it..make sure the other half knows that your in a serious relationship and going somewhere with the relationship because he may think its something casual or may not believe in love.well i would probibly wait a few months before saying it mayb 3months and just make sure that you in ur heart know that its true..dont be too worried if they dont say it back to you it just means theyr not ready [ sia's advice column | Ask sia A Question ]
can6801 answered Thursday March 12 2009, 3:35 am: To say "I love you" carries a great deal of responsibiliy, but is thrown around more then PLEASE or THANK YOU. So if your the one giving or the one recieving... Take it slow.
In my opinion "LOVE" isn't an emotion. Love is a choice.
Some, well I should say many, confuse the physical feeling with attachment or commitment. Then in turn lable that feeling as LOVE. When all along it was all physical attraction.
If we as human beings acted solely on physical feeling we'd be " loving" every thing with leggs. [ can6801's advice column | Ask can6801 A Question ]
tber89 answered Thursday March 12 2009, 12:18 am: Don't put a time limit on when your gonna say it.... say it when you mean it... thats all that matters [ tber89's advice column | Ask tber89 A Question ]
Kittzen answered Wednesday March 11 2009, 11:42 pm: Four me it normal falls around when i feel it first. but one that i have in mind was around the second to third month if that helps. just know that when you love some one if it takes a year or maybe a day tell them, they might not feel the same thing back right away but give it time. if they are meant for you they will understand. [ Kittzen's advice column | Ask Kittzen A Question ]
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