To discribe in brief? Can we say "pointless"?
However for the record I have been called Intelligent, Extroverted, Beautiful, Tenatious, Truthfully Blunt, Head strong, Loving, Friendly and Hillarious.
The little People in my life, call me a " Super Hero Mommy".
My oldest says "Mom, your unique because you are creative".
My middle says "Mmmm Mother... You smell so good".
My yongest says simply," MAMMA".
Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: Life coach, EMT
Age: 25
Yahoo: cacampora357
Member Since: March 12, 2009
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i Think im started to have feelings for my best friend im a girl and hes a guy so yeah nayways.
He has a girlfirend, but the things is, im sure that he jus "wants a girlfriend" dont ask why im just positive about it, well, i kinda think he likes me too why? well hes always saying "i love u" and stuff to me and like the other day he wrote it on my hand right and then the next day i came to school, he was like i wanna know why your hand.... and then he stops and pulls my sleeve up to see if the "ilove u " is still there,like he was jus lookin for an exuse to see it, not only that, whenever im sittin down he'd come pinch my cheecks or sit REALLLLLLLLY close next to me,
like srsly, and like wherever i am he wants to be with me no matter how many people are standing with us, hes always after me.
and hes always commenting me calling me cute
and that he loves me and stuff
i doknt know cause then again he says im his BEST FRIEND FOREVER..
i dont know what do u gyus think?? (link)
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I would have to say... Take a chance, it sounds like you have a strong sense, and can clearly tell he's into you...life's too short!
Good luck!
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Hi im 17/f and my ex boyfriend is 19/m. I recently charged him with stalking and he sent me threatening e-mails to kill me. I got a restraining order today and it was accepted. I hear he went to jail earlier today but now is out and has a court hearing on tuesday. I know i have to go, or its a good thing to do. His dad is a prison guard and also is going to the hearing in behalf of my ex boyfriend. Im really scared. what is going to happen? Will they make me answer questions? Its all very scary can someone please tell me whats gonna happen?
THANK YOU! (link)
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I found your question alarming and very serious.
And a great question to ask!
Fisrt I can say without question, VIOLENCE isnt right in any manor.
This young man at point was your boyfriend, if he truely cared about you, You know that its crazy for him to think of causing you harm. Right?
I am not sure what state your in however in California, for a victim to be present isnt nessasary, unless a judge says otherwise- in that youll be notified. Other wise with the restraining order you are protected- A judge signed it.
Either way Most likely the District Attorney will fight for whats right.
You can also get more certain info by contacting the district attorney's office in your area, or the police station even- they will at least point you in the correct direction.
If you are to scared, you can always have a close friend or family member go, and see what the judge has to say.
I'd go and show my face to make sure he knows your not playing games, and are very serious that you will not put up with his abuse. Bring some one with you. There's no way he can hurt you from jail.
Standing up for whats right is very impowering, and also shows other people that they need not be afraid of whats right.
I hope you feel alittle better, I know its seems like a lot. It will pass.
Good luck to you, and please stay strong!
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I just ended a 6 and a half month relationship with my girlfriend. I am 18 years old and a freshman is college, she is 21 years old who is not currently in school and has faternal twins the age of two. Obviously there is a good reason why i broke up with her. It has only been a week since we broke up and it is so hard. I love her and she loves me. What do i do? do i listen to society, my family and friends, the brothers of my fraternity? or my heart. do i look at my future or what. My heart is torn between choosing to date a girl i really love or what society tells me to do. She is a package deal which im not too excited for because no 18 year old freshman in college wants 2 kids. Also, she is still married to the other man but very close to getting a divorce. I really need some advice. Do i listen to my heart or society? (link)
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What a great question!
I can say I think its great that you are not only willing, but are fully aware of the responsibility that comes with dating a single parent. You are wise beyond most of your peers!
The possibilities here are endless...If you stay, who knows what can arise, wheres daddy? Is thier relationship really over? whats the hold up on the divorce? Have you met him? Who gives support financially? Does this woman make you want to try harder, for your own sake? The children may become attached very quickly-that alone is a blessing to a child however also a huge responsibility that you may not be ready for?
If you choose to go on with your life? Her choices may take her to where is supposed to be. Your going to school,creating your life as you know it.
I myself have been in love and had to end a relationship, I thought I was going to need pain meds because i hurt so bad- even if I was the one who broke it off.
The truth is every thing that happens in life is all to be learned from, so we can grow.
It isnt right or wrong to follow your heart.
I also think to follow what "socity says" would only cloud your own feelings and thoughts.
The best adive I can give is to go with your GUT, what are the facts? What are you willing or able to provide- on top of giving to your self?
And most Importantly friend, TAKE IT SLOW.
Good luck to you !
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(21/F) A few years ago, I had an abortion. It was during a serious relationship and I was going into college and I felt it was right due to all the circumstances. I had support from my family, but my boyfriend never knew because we split before I went through with it. Sometimes I really regret my decision, and wonder if it would have been a boy or a girl. I wonder what he/she would look like. It just hits me hard, still to this day. Deep down, I know it was the right decision but I cry alot and think about the "what ifs". Has anyone gone through this? What am I supposed to do? I don't need any lectures or personal opinions, I just need some honest help. (link)
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I myself have had an abortion, for the same reasons. I didnt tell asole, even my husband.
My days, months, years following were filled with regret and sadness. I became prg. for the third time and and when i gave birth my bf, says "theres some thing very special about this little girl", at that moment I knew That the life I had to "put on hold" came and was given back to me.
If your religious at all , Pray to your higher power.
And do it till your blue in the face.
You know you made the best choice...Other wise you wouldn't have went through with it. Right?
Look at it like it was a time that you pressed pause.
Good luck to you!
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Male, 26
I've been having dreams where I'm having sex with women other than my girlfriend. And in my dream, I'm aware that I have a girlfriend.
I did some dream interpretation research, and it says that I'm having feelings of self-guilt, or non-satisfaction in my love life.
Seriously, can someone explain what this means? (link)
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Boredom
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How can you tell if a guy you're pretty good friends with, but also have a crush on, only sees you as a friend? He doesn't know I like him and I think he might too but I'm not sure. I already know what signs to look for to figure out if he likes me but i'm not good at this and I really need help figuring this out so i want to know how to tell if he just sees you as a friend. Please please help I'm so bad at this and I'm having trouble getting through to him as well =/ (link)
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Ask him, explore the options is my only advice.
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I am wondering what i have, the symptoms are all over the place, my best friend and feonce say i could be pregnant but i don't believe i am cause i just had a regular period that ended two days ago. but the symptoms are:
- i have a garbage like smell from down there
- i am irritated very easily
- i am abnormally emotional
- i am having trouble falling asleep, and trouble waking up
- i have cramps but i just finished my period two days ago
- I was feeling nauseated for three to four days now i am fine.
Please only serious answers. (link)
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Girl, Go to the GYNO like NOWW. When In doubt "Check it OUT"!!
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this is mostly meant for those who have been in a relationship for a while, but anyone can answer. when(how many months) did you first tell your boyfriend/girlfriend you love him/her? thanks in advance. (link)
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To say "I love you" carries a great deal of responsibiliy, but is thrown around more then PLEASE or THANK YOU. So if your the one giving or the one recieving... Take it slow.
In my opinion "LOVE" isn't an emotion. Love is a choice.
Some, well I should say many, confuse the physical feeling with attachment or commitment. Then in turn lable that feeling as LOVE. When all along it was all physical attraction.
If we as human beings acted solely on physical feeling we'd be " loving" every thing with leggs.
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