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Member Since: March 12, 2009
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Last Update: March 12, 2009
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19/f

I've been dating my boyfriend for about three months, and even though we are not the same religion, it's not an issue because we're both open-minded and we don't try to push our ideas on each other. But his mother is very religiously Catholic, and she told my bf that she thinks I'm corrupting him because I'm Buddhist. In truth, my bf has been Agnostic for almost 2 years, and I have nothing to do with his religious point of view.

My bf also told his mom that we're sexually active, assuring her that we always have protected sex and that we're in love. His mom flipped, said I was tearing her family apart, and now he and I can't hang out at his house- we have to go out or chill at MY house.

He and I are both committed to this relationship, and we're planning on staying together for as long as possible. Is there anything I can do to get his mother's blessing? (link)
well i think you should talk to her, call her on the phone and ask her if you to can sit down like to nomoral adults. let her know how you feel about her son and reasure her that he belives in his religion strongly. tell her that you love each outher nd nothing would make you more happy then to have her bleesing.

hope i helped if i did and u want anymore advice you can email me at jayhowell48@yahoo.com


what does it mean if your having sex and his dick slips out? is this normal, or is it bad?
thanks soo much (link)
hey wats up yes nd no what i mean buy that its a good thing if you are realy wet, nd its a bad thing if the guy is realy small


The other night when i was in bed my brother came in my room to use my computer, i was curious as to what he was doing so i pretended to be sleeping. He started off by just playing a game but then after 10 mins he started to watch naughty videos. I found it funny and thought to myself *haha you are so busted*. But then he got his thing out and started to masturbate, i was really shocked and couldn't believe what i was seeing, it was the first time i had seen a penis in real life and i couldn't take my eyes off what he was doing, after the initial shock went i started to become kinda hot and enjoyed watching. Does any one have any ideas on what i should do? I don't mind that he done it as i kinda liked seeing it, but i'm not sure if i should tell him i saw etc
oh btw i'm 19 and he's 22 (link)
he wats up well im not trying to be rude but have u ever wanted to mess around with ur brother


I'm trying to find a babysitting job but I don't really have any expirience with young children. I got a response to babysit a 2 year old boy from 9-5 3 days a week and I don't even know how to take care of a 2 year old! Do they need changed? Do they eat normal food? Do they talk? Please give me tips so I don't sound stupid asking the mother questions like that. (link)
hey well the first thing i can tell you find someone that has a two year old be around them next do some reading. yes some are potty traied some arent, yes they eat nomaly food you just have to cut the food in smaller bits nd for the hole talking thing yea most of them do but some have not learned yet


I seem to scream, "Walk all over me!" All my friends do it, and people I'm not so close to. I'm always getting canceled on or "I'll be late" type of stuff. Its only started a few months ago, but its starting to get on my nerves. In fact, my closest friend does it the most. When I talk to her about it, she acts all bitchy and it makes me feel like I've done something wrong.

Should I say something to people? And if I should, what would I even begin to say?
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hey wats up how are u well you need to let your friends and ever one elts that your not a door mat u need to let your friends know how you feel let them know how its makeing you feel when they walk all over you just talk to them about it


Usually I love to read. Today I tried to pick to pick up a new book but I just can't focus. I really want to read it. I just have a lot on my mind. For example my aunt just died, and my dad almost had a heart attack a few weeks ago. I just can't focus on things that I use to love. And I tried for hours reading the same book. Can you give me some tips on how to concentrate better even when you have a lot of things on your mind? (link)
hey how are you, well first you need to take some time to cope with the death of your ant it will take some time but sooner it will get a little better, 2nd it sounds like you need to find something that helps you let out strees in a postiv way take a jog, go to the gym just talk it out with some one


this is mostly meant for those who have been in a relationship for a while, but anyone can answer. when(how many months) did you first tell your boyfriend/girlfriend you love him/her? thanks in advance. (link)
hey wats up, well in my mind its when you feel ready to say it, i know its only 3 little letters but it has a lot of meaning behide it so if u ask me its when you feel ready in my mind there is no real time tabel


Ok, I know that I should already have the answer to this. I am wondering Am I being dumb? Am I being played?
My husband of 8 years told me three months ago he had been cheating on me for a year. I was pregnate with our son when he started. Actually he started two weeks before I delivard him. I have kicked him out. Everyone says I should leave him. But he seems to want to come over when the kids are not home to be with me. He has started calling me a lot during the day. He even planned a family trip while are oldest is on spring break. I feel I am getting mixed signals. I know he is still having sex with her. He tells me he still loves me.. I have started not taking his calls, because why should I. I thought I should try and move on. I ended up kissing some guy at a neighbors house, he found out and was really pissed. He went up to the guy and said some not very nice things. I just dont get it. Do I just give up? My heart says see if we can work on it. But my brain says you kicked him out for a reason.. Please help

Mellys (link)
Hey ok well i think you should leave him, he has cheated on you in the past nd he will do it again.You need to ask your self whats best for you, but if you still love him tell him if he realy loves you he will stop seeing the outher women nd come back to you, but it all bolis down to what you want nd what will make you happy. If he is just playing with your emoutions then leave him but if he is serious about leaveing the outher women and nd you will give him a nother shoot then do it, but in the end it all boils down to what will make you happy hope i helped




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