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anniversary..?


Question Posted Thursday March 12 2009, 9:40 pm

At what point does it become normal to just say happy anniversary every year and not like every month? my boyfriend used to be really good about remembering to say it every month, sometimes better than me... but we've been going out for six months and he dosen't say it anymore... he stopped saying it at five... is that normal? thanks in advance :)

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karenR answered Saturday March 14 2009, 7:35 am:
Don't worry about it. Celebrating months and weeks just diminishes the yearly anniversary. It becomes just another ho hum anniversary.

I guess what I am saying is that the abnormal thing is to celebrate the months. Not celebrating them is normal. So, while it was a cute thing to do for a while. Stopping is indeed normal.

Hows that for over explaining? :)

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Er_Bear19 answered Friday March 13 2009, 4:20 pm:
Yeah, that's normal. You just need to tell him that it makes you feel good when he says it, and maybe that will motivate him to say it more.

Me and my boyfriend have been celebrating months since last March. But it will be a year in a couple weeks, and we decided that after that, we'll just celebrate the year. It makes sense, cause if you think about it, it would be kind of stupid to say "Happy 13 months!" or "Happy 1 year and 1 month!" LOL.

Just remember, he's been with you for half a year, and obviously loves you, so don't worry about so much. It's a guy thing. :)

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AnonymousAdvisor answered Friday March 13 2009, 2:22 pm:
Its normal. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 2 months, and he stopped saying it after ten months, lol. Its kinda funny, because he gets so carried away when I have to remind him. & When I remind him, he says it all day long. Just remind him that it makes you feel happy when he says it, and it makes you feel like he cares because he remembers.
Hope I helped.

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Mr-Fix-It answered Friday March 13 2009, 2:05 pm:
It's normal for some people. But make him feel bad about it any way. Be like you didn’t say happy anniversary :( and maybe he will try to make it up to you. Just keep on going with it but before he gives up (trying to make it up to you) just say I forgive you. Hope it works out. From the man himself
Mr-Fix-It

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