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he already has a girlfriend....
Ok, here is the thing. I like to think that I can give really good relationship advice when I have an outsiders view. But when it comes to my own relationship issues, I get totally lost. Its like two different things. So, hopefully there is someone that will have a good perspective on this.
I met this boy a couple weeks ago at my school event where I hosted his school. We became friends, and text a lot. Sometimes we have deep conversations, and other times we just goof around. I know that he only sees me as a friend, because he has a girlfriend and they have a strong relationship. The thing is, I really like this boy. I haven't liked a guy that I get along so well with before. Our friendship is very laid-back, and relaxed. Very natural and it comes easily.
A friend of his told me that they don't think he and his girlfriend will be breaking up anytime soon. Plus I would pretty much feel like a terrible person if I was the cause for their break up. I wouldn't wanna cause the other girl a lot of hurt, because I know what it feels like to be heart-broken and devastated. And its not like he and I have even had romantic moments or anything like that. What do I do?
Thanks in advance. [16/f]
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What do you do?
You leave it alone.
You seem like a good person and you said you wouldn't want to be the cause of her pain or their break up if it went that far.
So what now?
You move on, stay (strictly) friends, and date other guys.
If you guys' paths ever cross in a romantic way when he is single then you go for it.
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no no no thats all i c an sayy you cant go there because itll get all messy..even if they break up they seen really close so shes always going to be there in the background trying to work things out for him and youd have to wait for both of them to get over eachother.it just wont work.i no you say that you really like him and you havent felt like this way before.your 16 and im sure youl be saying that a few more times as you get older trust me dont be that girl that the girlfriend hates it will just never work out.best advise to you is to move on and just stay friends and just be there as support for him
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