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ill never find anyone like him again
16/f
well me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago. we have been best friends for 2 years and have dated for 8 months. we know eachother inside out and hes the only one i trust. he was my everything. he was the first guy i ever loved. now that hes gone i just cant believe it. he said he wasnt ready for a relationship so i had to let him go. its too hard for him to talk to me as a friend so now we just ignore eachother. its really sad, i miss him more and more everyday i have cried everyday for the past month. i hate seeing him flirt with all these other girls and he acts like everything is fine. it kills me inside. he was the perfect guy for me and the most amazing guy in the world. he was captain of the football team, always so smooth, class clown who made everyone laugh. most popular guy in school who everyone knows and likes. so strong on the outside yet sensitive on the inside. someone i could spend everyday with no matter what and really open up and cry to him when something was going bad. we would sleep on the beach on summer nights with eachother, watch movies on rainy days, get dropped off in random places and find the funnest things to do. he was absolutely everything to me, all i ever needed. my best friend. now that hes gone everything just isnt worth it anymore. my heart is crushed and i would kill to have him back. id kill to be able to fall asleep in his arms 1 more time like we used to every night. for him to whisper to me that everything would be ok and that he loved me more than anything. that he'd stick with me through anything. just for him to kiss me one more time i would do anything. he was absolutely the perfect guy for me. he had not one thing about him that i didnt like. we really were perfect for eachother. my friends are telling me to move on but i really cant imagine ever being with anyone else. and even if i was they wouldnt be perfect like him. im so lost. what do i do?!?
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You're not ready for a new relationship because you aren't letting go of the previous one. The wounds are still a little fresh, so for now you are still pining away. You'll get past this, but it may take time.
You are setting him up in your mind to be perfection. I promise you, he is far from perfect. If you feel he is, then nobody will ever be good enough because nobody can compete with perfection. While you are still hurting and have him on this high pedestal, you must remember, he has flaws, just like everyone else in this world. There are other guys out there who would be sensitive enough not to flirt with others if they knew you were anywhere nearby to see it. Or even hear of it. Right there is your "perfect" boyfriend! That's cruel. "Act's like everything's fine." That kinda says it all. He doesn't care who he hurts. I call that smug and arrogant. Not my idea of perfect or sensitive.
You love him and it'll be tough going for a while, but you'll get over him in due time. Meanwhile, chin up. Keep in mind that he continues to hurt you by his actions despite the fact that you once had a relationship. Keep in mind that he should respect what you once had, even though you've broken up, and should act with more sensitivity than he is. Keep that in mind and you'll eventually see that he is not the guy you think he is.
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this really broke my heart.i do know how it feels like to love someone soo much you never want to let them go.you just wish you could spend enternity together and never let eachother go.yep i know it hurtss soo much.just ask urself this you thought he was good fro you but did he think that you were the one for him?i no its a mean question to ask but you have to think logically.he broke up with you and is flirting with other girls.i just think he just stopped feeling the spark.i didnt see how you two were together but my saying is "its best to be with someone who loves you not be with someone you love. i know that right now the pain is hard to bare but you bust give it time to heal.you need time away from him or even try a metioned to block the pain out just stop niticing hes there and stop thinking about him and just put your emotions aside and go back to being really good friends because its better than loosing him forever and not knowing that there mayb something for you with him in the future.this is my advise to you and i hope it helped
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