So i met this guy and he is really sweet.... I didnt think I was gonna fall too hard for him but i think did. He's really nice to me and we have good conversations. I sometimes picture him as like a best friend that i can go shopping with and he can help me pick out an outfit or maybe we could go to the movies and just have fun.... he is leaving soon for a few months and its kinda got me down in the dumps... Im really confused about this... do i have feelings for him or do i not and what do i do or say.... I dont know really just let me know what you think
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? boyycrazy answered Thursday March 12 2009, 10:57 pm: sounds like you sort of like this guy, well i'll tell you something. going for your friends is not always the best idea. so think about this.
do you see yourself with him as a boy[kissing, cuddling, hugging, talking on the phone till late, and the usual couple arguments?] or as a friend[someone to talk to about other guys, cry with, and just hang out?].
it may be a hard decision but listen to your heart and you will know what you really want.
XxcutieXx answered Thursday March 12 2009, 6:26 pm: and the cards go up, scribbled yes! Yes as in, YES you do have feelings for him! <33 and what I want you to try and do is just say it. Well, what you are really screaming in your heart. If its on the GO FOR IT side, go for it. He seems like a guy who wouldn't ignore you for saying you liked him. Just tell him like something like this: "I really think you're sweet and I think I like you..."? Uh... um.... I would go for it but err... not with that i think that one wasn't good. Try in a small conversation saying how cool he is since you met him and tell him to do the same with you... And, if he says something really nice that seems attractive, go for it and say, "do you sorta like me because I do..."... gosh i suck at this, I'm sorry :[ tehe try it... lemme know if it works... if it doesn't... get a virtual belt and whip me haha!
BehindBlindeyes answered Thursday March 12 2009, 2:13 pm: Well the sound of it, makes it out like you Do indeed have feelings for this boy. In all due respect maybe you should talk to him and find out what he thinks about you. if he likes you, then date him and see where that takes you. You said he's leaving for a couple of months, well tell him before he leaves "if he likes you back" and that way he looks forward to coming home :)
I say you should give him a chance,
Life and Love are two different games.
though they are both games of chance.
Just, if you want- give him a chance.
bt if you don't know still just
wait it out and see how things
work out.
I hope this helped i tried my best X)
Seriously though, Think about it
and follow your heart :) Sometimes the "BestFriend" is the best boyfriend/girlfriend.
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