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annoying girl man stealer
well my boyfriend or ex boyfriend ( we were dating and went on a break but are now trying to figure things out because we still love eachother but we arent officially dating again) whatever he is, has been talking to this girl he used to hook up with ALOT. he pretty much hooked up with her all while we were talking. and he told me about it and it sounded like she was just another girl. so i didnt care because me and my bf wernt even dating at the time. we were just best friends so he told me everything. well from what he told me, he had stopped hooking up with her a week before we started dating. while we were dating she always told me he talked to her and when i asked him, he didnt deny it. she said he would ask her how she was and he would tell her about the problems we were having in our relationship. so i thought maybe she wasnt just another girl to him and it made me mad that he was telling her all this. then he told me that he cared about her. well he has always been a player and never cared about any girls he had hooked up with except for me because we started out as best friends so this kind of made me a little weirded out that he suddenly cared about her. well now that we are on a break, she told me that they had been talking and he tells her alot of stuff about our relationship and about me. she came up to me today and said he had told her something about me that she couldnt tell me. this really pissed me off. i want to know if they have started hooking up again. i mean i guess my bf or ex bf whatever, can hook up with people now since we are broken up. but we still act like we are dating and are trying to make things work so we can date again. but i really dont know what to think. i dont want to seem like the jealous clingy ex because he tells her everything and i guess it is like him telling any other friend about it. but they had a thing so its not like theyre just friends. me and this girl are friends, or i pretend to be just to stay on her good side. i dont know what to do because i think maybe she is influeincing him to leave me. she tells him stuff like love at this age isnt real and other dumb things and i think he listens to her. i dont want her to take my spot and i hate how he talks to her about me. what should I do?
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It sounds like this is all way more his fault than it is hers. or yours. I mean if he is pouring out his heart to this girl telling her intiment details of your relationship then this situation is on him.
You say he is a player, so it sounds like he is once again "playing". If "hooking up" involves having sex then this gets even more complicated.
Maybe it's time for a new boyfriend. Have some fun, go out. Tell him you care about him but you're not going to wait around for him while he "PLAYS YOU" The other girl just wants him. If he's dumb enough to listen then let him go for it. Don't let it get you down. Bust out and make him regret it!
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Just forget it dude. Because first of all not to sound harsh but you never should of hooked up with him any way. If you new he was a player because they are all craps. But it sounds like him and her are dating and that they just want you to stay away. So grant there wish and forget about those crap heads and focus on you do things you enjoy. And also make him wish you guys never broke up by making yourself look SMOKEN HOT. Wear awesome outfits that show your bod off because I'm shore you’re HOT any way so it will be easy. Make him wish he was never born just COMPETLY ignore him. And it will work fine. Make that girl look like yester days garbage. ROCK ON
Mr-Fix-It
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whoa, well... since you wanna be his friend still, be it. She can't make you not be it. I dunno, I'm sorta confused with the whole situation (im sorry!) but, it sounds like you wanna be his... "BFF"? Im not sure but... Yeah, just stick to being his friend and talk to him as if he was just your best friend, like before you started going out with him. So... YEAH :] (er... i don't think that made any sense... :[.) I hope it works...haha
Always there 4 you 24/7, XxcutieXX
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