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Lesbian?
Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 9:52 pm
For the past 4-5 years of my life, I have been struggling with the realization that I am most likely a lesbian, and at the very least bisexual. I don't consider myself homophobic in the least, but admitting to myself that getting married to a nice boy won't make me happy has been difficult.
I have had a limited number of same-sex encounters with other girls, but nothing too serious. I am now in college, and ready to face my future bravely and with certainty.
I am not sure how to explain this to my close friends. I feel uncomfortable. I'm not sure how to begin living out this "new chapter" in my life. Any advice?
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love without sex?
Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 9:01 pm
sorry if this ends up being long but i have two questions kinda...
17/f
ive never understood why society made it so bad for teenagers to have sex. i mean people 13 and even younger were having babies in the past, and that was considered acceptable? In fact if a girl WASNT married by 17 she would be considered too old...
i just dont get why its SUCH a horrible thing for someone my age to have sex if they are ready. and i know about sex. i know that it should be done only out of love, and only if youre mature enough to handle it, and only if you can take on the responsibility of sex and protecting yourself to avoid pregnancy. but if everything is perfect, then whats the big deal? thats my first question if someon...
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this is the first time he's pushed me
Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 7:45 pm
the other day my boyfriend was going through my phone and saw his cousins number in my phone (he's a boy) but the thing is he's my second cousin too (me and my boyfriend arent relataed so dont worry) and he went off.. he pushed me and was calling me all kinds of names. now he wont call me back, answer my calls, or even answer my texts. its been 2 days and i still aint heard from him. i love him. and i know he didn't mean to push me. what should i do? im female and 16.
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help him
Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 6:53 pm
okay i need advice to give to my best guy friend.
He likes this girl A and loves this girl B. well A likes him back and B loves him to. Me and Him are so confused because he doesnt know what to do. Weather to be with A or B. B told him that shes loved him and would b there when he was done with A. I told him if B really meant what she said then go with A. But then he said that he really loved B and then i said it sounded like hed rather b with B. then he said he didnt know because he really like A too. so i dont know what to do im stuck, hes stuck. Hes is also wanting to lose his virginity to one of these girls. please help and im sorry if its long. thanks
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Uggh. ex or current boyfriend?
Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 6:53 pm
Ok so im sorry if this is long but i really need help. So my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and 2 months now, but we have broken up quite a few times, two of them were because he cheated on me. Well this summer we were'nt dating and i really liked this kid Coston, his family and mine are really close but anyways we had a thing almost all summer long and then when school started again me and Jordan (kid mentioned at beginning) started dating again so mine and Costons thing just kinda ended well now i started talking to Coston again and i am really starting to like him again and im not sure what to do... i mean Jordan has hurt me a lot before and i dont really trust him but Coston has never hurt me and he just makes me smile. Don...
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Calling back an ex boyfriend...
Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 6:51 pm
I broke final ties (even just friendship) with my ex of 2 years on January 9th. This was both of our doing, but it was hard not to get attached again. Since then I haven't seen or heard from him. Yesterday I called him just as a tendency because I knew I couldn't get the guts to talk to him again, but hung up after 3 rings. Later that evening he called me back but it went straight to my voicemail and I was afraid to pick up.
I've always been that shy girl around him (I'll be 17 next month and he's 19 and a half) and now after a 3-month absence should I try and be more bold and actually call and talk to him?
Help is appreciated:)
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Did I do the right thing?
Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 5:56 pm
18 female!
Basically, I had been with my boyfriend for 10 months. I have never loved anyone as much as i love him but i wasnt happy! I hardly ever saw him, he wanted to be with his friends at the weekend and I seen him about 2 nights a week if I was lucky enough. I was really hurting inside because i love him so much and wanted to be with him as much as possible, so I decided i would confront him about it, I explained that i would like to see him a bit more and asked if he could give up 1 night at the weekend to be with me, basically asked him to spend more time with me! but he wasnt happy, he said i was making him choose between me and his friends and said it would be best if we were apart! Now im left without the one person i loved...
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this guy.
Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 4:24 pm
i met this one guy on myspace a while back. he is now my boyfriend. whenever i hang out with him i have to lie to my parents about who he is.
we have hungout alot. but he doesnt drive. and i dont have my lisence yet and he lives about 30 minutes from me so his friend picks me up with him and drives us to his house and then drives me home.
i tell my mom im hanging out with some guys from a different school around here. and yesteday i told her that one of my friends is friends with a guy from about 30 minutes away (which is my boyfriend) and she told me next time i hangout with him she wants to meet him.
im getting my lisence soon and i have a car so i was thinking about going to pick him up and bring him back her...
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I really like somone
Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 4:08 pm
Well theres this boy at school that i really really like. He doesn't know i like him . Im too afraid to tell him my feelings, eventhough he said he would give anyone a chance, because I dont really know him that well and I dont think he likes me.I think hes becoming a slight obsession aswell, i cant stop thinking about him. Im really afraid of rejection, should i tell him anyway? or just keep quiet and hope that one day he notices me ? HELP :(.
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I need help
Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 3:26 pm
Okay well ive been dating this guy for about 2 months now and every thing is perfect but ther is one thing that is bugging me he is still really cool with his ex and she still likes him i mean he tells me everything like what she tries to do and stuff like that she knows he is with me and she does not like me at all (i really dont cre about all that) but she texts him all the time tries to come see him and asked him to come over her house im kinda stunned i really dont knw what i should do i mean ive been done so wrong in the past and i dnt wnna put all my troubles on him but i just need help
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Did he use me? or am I overreacting? =(
Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 1:18 pm
My Boyfriend. I've never felt so close to anyone.
So I did something stupid and had sex with him too soon on Thursday. He sometimes would talk to me on the phone until I got home which would take 30 mins. He didn't afterwards. He wasn't even going to walk me to my car until I mentioned it or didn't give me a kiss goodbye. Maybe because I had to end it short because I had to go home. Ever since then he hasn't been the same. To think someone could be so cold and to use someone for sex, BUT I have my doubts because these are the good things he did that no one could just think of :
-He'd wake me up everymorning for school and text me after to make sure I was up.
-We text all day and he would tell me everything that was happ...
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is talking to the same person every day unhealthy?
Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 12:43 pm
so my boyfriend was telling one of my friends how if you text the same person (boyfriend or girlfriend) every day its unhealthy. i understand if you see them everyday And text everyday but we see each other only on the weekends cause we live 25 mins away from each other and he never texts me during the week..he knows i like to be texted but he never does it, i always have to text him and he usually takes forever to respond or doesnt at all. is it seriously unhealthy? i miss him alot by the end of the week and i wanna talk to him...what should i do?
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Stuck in a triangle
Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 10:09 am
At the moment my boyfriend is locked up and i am 7 1/2 months pregnant. Like 2 weeks ago my best friend kissed me and i didnt stop him . We chill like everyday now. I really to love my boyfriend but im starting to get feeling 4 my best friend. At the moment i dont know what to do. I dont know what to say or think. Can u please at least help me with this?
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is this normal?
Posted Saturday April 4 2009, 9:42 pm
K so I'm 15/f frshman and HS and I've never had a bf, and only 1 guy that I know that's actualy ever liked me. All my friends have had/have bf's and I haven't, I've never kissed anyone either, and my bestfriend just told me that she had sex for the first time, and I just feel like I'm a total freak because I've never had a bf. Is that normal??
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A Girl I really really Like
Posted Saturday April 4 2009, 7:32 pm
Its like this I really like this girl but I'm not in her class or have never talked to her so here's the pitch I get someone to tell her that I like her not to ask her out I'll do that myself but just to see if she likes me back which I think she does You know the slight glance every single day at lunch time and so on and don't worry I'm not just imagining it in my head.I'm not a fool.I was going to ask her out myself but figured why risk getting rejected and embarrassed like that for no reason when I could get someone to see if and that's a Big If she liked me in return so then i would ask her out myself.Finally here's the question what I said above an OK way to go with it and secondly I'm 17 and she's 14 just wondering if that's alright.B...
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He is making me go crazy with his sweet talking and memories!
Posted Saturday April 4 2009, 6:44 pm
As I was saying before I was with this guy for 11 months and its been about 4 months since we've broken up. I feel as if he was my first true love. He found a new girl now but they aren't dating. He keeps bringing up the past and all the memories we've had... and it's starting to make me fall for him again. I DON'T WANT TO THOUGH. Then he tells me he loves her but he loves me more. Agh he still uses all the nick names we created for each other when we are dating. WHAT DO I DO? What does this mean?
Female, 14.
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i luv hm.. bt does he feel the same??
Posted Saturday April 4 2009, 4:05 pm
well.. herz the thing..
i maaadly in love with this guy.. he isnt my dream guy AT ALL.. but for some reason i have the strongest feelings towards him..
2 years ago he asked me out.. i sayd yes.. but he ended up hurting me so badely and leaving me.. then after a few months he asked me again.. i agreed cuz i was still in love with him ... and he left me again.. because i was grounded (i was caught dating)and i had no phone and coudn't go out .. and he wanted a gurl that he could acctually see and touch..
then he came to me again after some months and asked me again.. he told me that he changed and that he is sory for the past and he doesn't care if am grounded or no .. and he just wants to be with me.. i defenetly sayd...
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Getting over him.
Posted Saturday April 4 2009, 3:03 pm
The guy I'm in love with just wants me for sex. How do I get over him? I have to see him everyday..
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I don't think I have a right to feel this...
Posted Saturday April 4 2009, 1:37 pm
Hello.
K so, I am 13/F and he is 14/M, and well... Here is the thing...
So, for a long time I have liked this boy, and he likes me too, but since we are quite young, and for other reasons, we have decided not to create a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. However, this doesn't stop us from time to time acting like a couple. So yesterday at lunch this girl, she's kind of pretty, came up to him and was like ALL OVER HIM. She started talking to him and she would like grab his hand real quick, or touch his cheek, or tug on his sleeve, or all kinds of stuff, when I was standing right next to him. We were talking and she just comes up and does all of this stuff, and it drove me INSANE. I was like crazy mad and even r...
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Does He Like Me!
Posted Saturday April 4 2009, 1:47 am
I KNOW ITS LONG BUT PLEASE READ IT AND HELP ME!
ok so theirs this guy and we were friends before
and we still are kinda but anyways his name is ryan and he asked me out and asked out this other girl to but i thought he was just messing around and at that time i didnt like him so i said "NO" and then like 2 - 3 weeks later or more he askes out ciara i dont know her but then at lunch my friend Miranda askes him "hey do u like Allisson " and he said "yeah! kinda "and when she told me i was falling for him (liking him) and that made me think does he like me? but anyways last wesenday afterschool he and his girlfriend were holding hands and they were all the way by the buses and i w...
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