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i luv hm.. bt does he feel the same??
well.. herz the thing..
i maaadly in love with this guy.. he isnt my dream guy AT ALL.. but for some reason i have the strongest feelings towards him..
2 years ago he asked me out.. i sayd yes.. but he ended up hurting me so badely and leaving me.. then after a few months he asked me again.. i agreed cuz i was still in love with him ... and he left me again.. because i was grounded (i was caught dating)and i had no phone and coudn't go out .. and he wanted a gurl that he could acctually see and touch..
then he came to me again after some months and asked me again.. he told me that he changed and that he is sory for the past and he doesn't care if am grounded or no .. and he just wants to be with me.. i defenetly sayd yes..
and now we are together.. he talked about marrying him.. and i just love him more than ever.. but hes never around.. and he doesn't express his feelings.. i taled some of my friends and they think that he's cheating on me.. but i trust him blindly..
i never saw him.. and i rarely hear his voice.. its been a month now and we havng talkd.. i miss him like hell..
i just want him to be around more often .. so what can i do?? and y isnt he around ???
plzzzzzz help mee.. am despret 4 an answer...
thnxx all.. apressiating everything.. xoxox
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well .. i live in bahrain.. so does he.. we even live in the same town..
and when i talk to him.. he says that he was just busy with his friends and studied and sometimes playing..
i don't have a phone.. and even when i call him.. he tells me its a bad timing no matter what.. and am not allowed to leave the house.. so we can't meet..
we talk once a month or two... i dream about him a lot.. and i think about him all the time.. even in class.. which really affected my studies (i used to get As but now i nearly failed ib my subject.. but my teachers gave me extra marks).. i don't study at home.. i only eat less (cause moma always forces me to eat)..
i really want him to be here with me.. i sumtimes feel that he doesn't exist in my life..
thnxx for your help gr8fruit... i so appretiate it ..
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Hey,
It sounds like you really miss him. I would try to find a way to contact him, through e-mail, by phone, or just face to face. You never mentioned where he went or anything like that, but contacting him would be the best way to sort things out. If he is trusting and understanding then he wont mind talking with you about all the things you are wondering.
The reason he isnt around is most likely because he is trying to figure things out for himself and just needs time away from it all. Or maybe he is needing to get away for a while from another issue he is having in his life. Either way, he is probably getting away from it all to sort things out and make time for everything, including you.
By the sounds of it, most of all you ahould trust your conscience. If you think things with him are getting a little strange then stand aside for a short while and watch how things are going in your relationship with him to decide if it is worth keeping. He should come back very soon to see you if he loves you the way he says.
Talking about it is the best way to figure out what is happening and to strengthen your relationship
Good luck :)
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