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He is making me go crazy with his sweet talking and memories!
As I was saying before I was with this guy for 11 months and its been about 4 months since we've broken up. I feel as if he was my first true love. He found a new girl now but they aren't dating. He keeps bringing up the past and all the memories we've had... and it's starting to make me fall for him again. I DON'T WANT TO THOUGH. Then he tells me he loves her but he loves me more. Agh he still uses all the nick names we created for each other when we are dating. WHAT DO I DO? What does this mean?
Female, 14.
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Guys are idiots. But I can tell that you're not an idiot because you said that you don't want to fall for him again. I'm proud of you!
So, you have two options. You can confront him and say, "Hey, guess what, I'm over you so stop acting like this could ever work out." You don't have to be nice about it, I promise. Just get the point across.
Or... if possible, you could avoid him as much as you can. If you two go to the same school, then that will probably be hard. But if you don't actually HAVE to see him every day, then you should at least try to stay away from him.
If you try your hardest to not contact him for a while, it will help you move on. Make a list of all the things you hate about him. If you can't think of anything, ask your friends what they hate about him. It really does help.
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it means you turned into a rebound girl. if his current relationship doesnt work out for him you will be there so he wont be since. you are young and dont need that kind of drama i say for get him and move on he isnt work your time.
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your only 14. thats young. you've got a whole life full of boys ahead of you. boys.......boys don't even matter! forget about him. have fun livin single for a little while. and some other BETTER guy will come a long. I PROMISE!
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Boys are stupid and he's just testing you. He'll bring back these memories and stuff to see if you still love him; he's trying to uplift his ego.
DON'T fall for it. You need to be strong. Try to rememver why you guys broke up...and remember he has a 'new girl'. If possible try to ignore him or tell him that you just want to be friends since it didn't work out the first time.
Good luck
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