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AM I RETARDED?!?!?!
Posted Tuesday April 14 2009, 9:53 pm
ok well im kinda dumb haha my boyfriends smart. he analyzes me all the time n sometimes i take it the wrong way. so can you please tell me what you think he is saying here:
i think you wallow in a bank of self pity not quite adressing it because you are too busy trying to help others n most of the time this leads to your discomfort which you dont mind because you feel like you deserve it i also think you have a subconsciously weird obsession with what could have been not what is
WHAT DO YOU THINK HE IS SAYING?!?!?! thanks!
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BFF vs. BF?
Posted Tuesday April 14 2009, 8:18 pm
So, my best friend forever is a little opinionated, close minded, and loud. Picture Paris from Gilmore Girls, for example. She's a lot like that but a little more feisty, if you will.
My boyfriend is opinionated about peoples opinions. He made her cry today by bringing up a past relationship problem.
We were hanging out today, the three of us, and she's really trying to be his friend. She even gave him one of her birthday cupcakes! But she's probably given up by now.
He almost didn't kiss me goodbye after I walked him home.
I just feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place here.
he's my first real boyfriend, and we haven't fought so far--its been a month and a half.
Any ideas? :/
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Please help, i like my best friend and theres more :/
Posted Tuesday April 14 2009, 7:22 pm
So, like i said before in my other question, i still love a guy who my best friend, sorry, EX best friend has stolen form me and now, one of his best friends (who is also my best friend) tells me he still likes me but i started to forget him already and i started to like one of his friends who is my other best friend and i really really like him SOOOOO badly...he's a skater, he's cute funny and...i just adore him. i dont know if he feels the same cause he's still getting over a girl but well...who knows, and now i dont know what to do cause i dont want to be with this other boy who still likes me i want to move on from him and try to be into his best friend but i dont want to break his heart cause i really love him though :/ so...the question is: WHAT TO DO?, pleasssssse answer :)Thanks!
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what if he tells me im not normal?
Posted Tuesday April 14 2009, 5:56 pm
I have never been fingered and i have been going out with this boy for along time, i've put it off him fingering me because im scared and he didn't seem to mind. he told me whenever im ready, its just whenever i've put my fingers up there it doesnt seem to feel right, like theres something in the way, i need to know if im abnormal? and also been fingered is suppose to feel good, whenever i've tried to do it, it didnt feel nice at all. Am i worrying too much? someone please help me! i need to know! please reply.
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how do i act around him now?
Posted Tuesday April 14 2009, 5:12 pm
A week and a half ago I admitted to my guy friend that I liked him and I pretty much scared the hell out of him. We didn't talk over that weekend or the monday after, and by then I'd already realized that the way I told him (long story) was way too forward, and in addition to the fact that it's not everyday a girl justs blurts that out to him. Then on tuesday, which was last week I apologized for freaking him out and he said it was ok and he pretty much admitted that I freaked him out but that was the last time we discussed it. I'm completely relieved that we're still friends but he never said whether he feels te same way or not, so I'm thinking that either he's been thinking about it and is not sure how to respond or not sure how he fee...
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boyfriend and depression
Posted Tuesday April 14 2009, 10:59 am
thanks soo much if you read this i really need help =/
(im 16 hes 17 we're both juniors)
so a few nights ago me and my boyfriend had this huge like 3 hour talk. he lost his motivation to do like anything because his depression is kicking in again and he said he saw someone about it and asked why it was coming back because he thought that his life was going really good and they said he had to much stressors in his life like his school, sports, parents and girlfriend. he told me that i couldn't relate to what his parents were going through because my parents aren't divorced but then i told him that it doesn't matter and that you just need someone to help you get through it and it doesnt matter if they can relate ...
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don't like guys for a long time
Posted Tuesday April 14 2009, 12:56 am
I have 2 questions. Theres this guy that really likes me and i like him a lot... on certain days, like one day i lovee him the next i don't like him, etc. He used to be like my brother but feelings grew. I was in love with my ex..his bestfriend..last year and he was basically my idea of the perfect guy. i neverr stay attracted to guys longer than about 2 weeks and i really hate it:( cause i focus on mainly all their flaws.. so my questions are
HOW DO I GET OVER MY EX AND JUST MOVE ON & forget how perfect he was and stop trying to make every guy i meet live up to his standards
and
HOW DO I LIKE A GUY FOR LONGER THAN 2 WEEKS AND NOT FOCUS ON THE NEGATIVE STUFF
and
HOW DO I...
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How do I be the man I need to be in my situation?
Posted Monday April 13 2009, 11:41 pm
Okay I dated this girl named Lorri for about 3 1/2 yrs when I was like 14. We broke up for 2 years and now we're back together.
It all started when she asked me to go to prom with her after her and Luke broke up. Well I figured since me and him hated eachother she was only trying to make him jealous so I was like okay.
But 3 weeks before prom we were talking one night and she told me she still had feelings for me but didn't expect me to care. At that exact moment I told myself I was just getting to the point where I could live without her, but then my heart sank. It was like every emotion I've ever felt for her struck a different nerve in my body.
In that instant, I realized every mistake of my life. And since the...
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i give up [this is long] sorry.
Posted Monday April 13 2009, 10:27 pm
so there's this guy that liked me [let's call him bob], then pretty much played me got back with his ex girlfriend. it has been almost 4 months now that he's been with her and we haven't talked at all unless i was the one who tried to text him or something. and over spring break i was babysitting. one of the little kids got into my phone and started calling a bunch of people in my contacts because i accidentlaly left it out and my phone is a peice of crap so it doesn't lock. well. one of the people the kid called was bob. apparently the kid just screamed into the phone and hung up. well. i got a couple texts from bob and he was saying wow cool, i know you hate me you dont have to lie that your babysitting and i was liek im not lying !! then...
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does he like me?
Posted Monday April 13 2009, 9:38 pm
there is this guy i like but i dont know if he likes me, he somtimes has sweaty palms around me, he always gives me a hug, he jokes around with me like grabbing my side, i chatch him staring at me somtimes, he listens to me, he sometimes lets me listen to his ipod, and he asked out the last girl he liked (and got denied) so i dont know if he likes me but is hesitant, or doesnt like me.
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im 16 and like a 24 year old.
Posted Monday April 13 2009, 3:59 pm
i met this guy named chris at a kick-back. and he thought i was 18.. so like he started talking to me and stuff.. ad we ended up kissing.. but not having sex because im a virgin and i wasn't going to give it up to him. so when he found out i was 16 he was like tripping lol. cause he's a marine and hes going to be a cop in 2 years and what happened is illegal you know. i've been seeing him every saturday for 3 saturdays straight. cause we hang around with the same people.. the second time we hung out he talked to me but like it was whatever.. his friend told me that he liked me but that i was young.. i see older guys dating underage girls all the time.. but yeah and i saw him this past saturday cause we had a bonfire at the beach and it was ...
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how to win her heart back..?
Posted Monday April 13 2009, 12:55 pm
I'm 17 n a guy..well its been well over a year since me and my ex broke up, I still can't get over her! I find it really depressing, I can't seem to get the courage to find another girl to get with after my ex. I'm not sure if I can ever get back with my ex, but I want to try, without seeming desperate or anything. If I can't do that, can you help me find a way to gain courage and talk to and meet new girls?
Thanks, helps appreciated!
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wild n crazy
Posted Monday April 13 2009, 3:30 am
Well I've been married goin on about a year, I love my wife, we've been together since middle school, and we've been havin sex since middle school! Its always been, good you know the basic sex life! Well here's the problem, I've always told her to up her anty u know(get a lil crazy in bed) well since we've been married she has, well not quite what I expected, she likes me to slap her and choke her, I've never been that wild, so I act like I love it, but I really can't stand it! I jus don't know how to tell her? I don't wanna break her heart or be rough durin sex, wait it gets worse we have sex every night, and before it was 3 times a month, please I need some advice, what should I do?
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sweet boy
Posted Monday April 13 2009, 1:32 am
my bf is nice, i wont deny that. he may be crude sometimes but hes a nice boy. problem is hes not that sweet. he doesn't do things that you wanna go awww. not that hes boring or anything, hes just not cute either. hes funny and stuff but i guess im such a girl that i fall for the stupid little things like being called princess and sent cute messages etc. i feel like this is keeping me from falling in love with him. its a bit shallow i guess but those things are what make me fall in love. but of course i dont want to tell him this, I dont want him to be sweet if its forced and he feels like he has to. so my question is how can i indirectly influence him be sweeter, or more romantic?
i know some of you will want to say that maybe that'...
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what if you dont love your husband anymore
Posted Monday April 13 2009, 12:20 am
i have a problem and seriously need some help to figure out what to do i need someone to talk to
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confused what guy.
Posted Sunday April 12 2009, 8:22 pm
okaayyy i dont think that youll be able to understand this casue its i think you have to know me and my friends to understand the situation. but i need to try cause i dont know what to do and i cant talk to anyone about this.
okay, Theres this kid karac, my bestfriend paige, and my boyfriend matt. Me and matt have been talking for over five months(dated before too) It took him three months to ask me out, he still wont kiss me in school, and he JUST told me he loved me on my birthday wednesday. hes really really not public about our whole relationship just casue hes shy, but hes defently a good guy. But while i was talking to matt i was also talking to this kid karac. and he wanted to be with me, but i kinda just blew him off for matt...
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Posted Sunday April 12 2009, 6:58 pm
I just started talking to this guy and he seems really cool. We go to the same school but we've never talked in person before. He randomly sent me a message on facebook then we started texting. He wants us to hang out together but I'm worried he just wants to get in my pants. People have told me to stop talking to him because he just wants to hook up. I want to hang out with him but what do i do if he tries anything? I don't want to do anything with him I just want to hang out as friends. How can i make this clear to him?
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two guys: one big problem
Posted Sunday April 12 2009, 4:50 pm
I am currently interested in two guys. Guy #1 was interested in me first, and even though I wasn't initially very keen on him, he has grown on me. Guy #2 and I became interested in each other pretty much at the same time. I have had dates with guy #1 but not Guy #2 (so far). Guy #2 knew from the beginning that I was seeing guy #1, but guy #1 didn't know about guy #2 until I told him last night (the relationship with him had been pretty casual until this past week). I know I need to choose one. My question isn't which one to choose, but whether I can feel less guilty before making my decision. Telling these guys was really hard, and guy #1 took the news pretty badly.
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Attraction problems
Posted Sunday April 12 2009, 1:33 pm
[15/F] So guys do think I'm pretty, so I have confidence but its just that when I'm around guys at a social place (whether it be at a party or usually at church) guys just don't seem to like (as in have a crush) on me. It's literally like all my other friends have bfs/admirers or are really close friends with the guys and I'm the only one that doesnt!
But don't get me wrong, I'm not saying guys should like me or whatever... im just wondering whats wrong with me? Any advice would be appreciated, thanks in advance!
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The truth.
Posted Sunday April 12 2009, 12:44 pm
So, I have a best friend, and i love him to death he is amazing. He is the only one that truely understands me and i don't know what I'd do without him, but there is one problem. He has a girlfriend, a bad girlfriend. She had cheated on him so many times before, and it makes him so upset almost to the point where he has come to me in tears. He doesn't see that she isn't worth his time because of how bad she hurts him. He just over looks it because he loves her so much. I honestly can't stand it I have tried so many times to tell him that she isn't right for him, without being mean of course. I really don't know what to do, and i always usually do know what to do and thats why this is so hard for me, because I truely do love him and i can't see him get hurt like this. Please help me.
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