okaayyy i dont think that youll be able to understand this casue its i think you have to know me and my friends to understand the situation. but i need to try cause i dont know what to do and i cant talk to anyone about this.
okay, Theres this kid karac, my bestfriend paige, and my boyfriend matt. Me and matt have been talking for over five months(dated before too) It took him three months to ask me out, he still wont kiss me in school, and he JUST told me he loved me on my birthday wednesday. hes really really not public about our whole relationship just casue hes shy, but hes defently a good guy. But while i was talking to matt i was also talking to this kid karac. and he wanted to be with me, but i kinda just blew him off for matt, even though i liked him and he acts so much better than matt. so we stopped talking talking and just were friends. and finally matt asked me out. now karac is talking to my bestfriend paige, but she is shy, unbelivable. like she like three other guys always blows him off and alll this stuff, he just wants to get in a realtionship but she is runing from him but still claims she really likes him. matt only comes to see me once a week, and doesnt talk to me much in school, but karac his does. i see him and talk to him so much more than matt. he offers to drives me home all the time when im stuck places and matt just walks away to his car when i tell him i have no way home. so yeah i like karac alooooot! problem is he likes my bestttttfriend and i have a boyfriend who just finally feel in love with me. what do i do!! like i kidna love my boyfriend. i do. but im young. karac always talks to me about paige and wants me to help him with her but sometimes i find myself hurting the situation between them. which is horrible. i just kinda like him and he use to really like me. )= do i ignore my feelings for him? he usually seems like he still likes me to but i know he wouldnt do anything casue matts his good friend. i cant really decide who i would be happier with? like im always sooooo upset cause matt never ever acts like he likes me and so much more. sorry this is long i hoope you understand. please what do i do?
jeric83 answered Monday April 13 2009, 3:12 am: Tell u what don't ever hold your feelings back jus go with them, matt sounds like a waste of time, I think if you break it off with matt and tell him why, cause he never shows no affection" he'll either,change his shy ways, or not, and if u do break it off,karac will know your single and things shall fall in place, look I know I'm not there or its harder then it sounds, but if you don't break it off with matt soon, and you hanging out with karac is only gonna fall into a disaster waitin to happen, so prevent it, cause you are the only one who has both keys to both doors, and which ever one you decide to open, make sure you close the other one all the way!...;) good luck!! [ jeric83's advice column | Ask jeric83 A Question ]
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