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don't like guys for a long time
I have 2 questions. Theres this guy that really likes me and i like him a lot... on certain days, like one day i lovee him the next i don't like him, etc. He used to be like my brother but feelings grew. I was in love with my ex..his bestfriend..last year and he was basically my idea of the perfect guy. i neverr stay attracted to guys longer than about 2 weeks and i really hate it:( cause i focus on mainly all their flaws.. so my questions are
HOW DO I GET OVER MY EX AND JUST MOVE ON & forget how perfect he was and stop trying to make every guy i meet live up to his standards
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HOW DO I LIKE A GUY FOR LONGER THAN 2 WEEKS AND NOT FOCUS ON THE NEGATIVE STUFF
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HOW DO I GET PAST THAT WE UESD TO BE "BROTHER AND SISTER"
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Well comparing him to your ex. can show two things. 1. Your not ready to move on and that why you are doing this. 2. You need too go out and have fun to move on. It is different from other people. So you need to make sure that you are emotionally ready to be in a relationship. To like a guy longer than 2 weeks you just need to focus on the good. I know this sounds stupid but at the end of the day take out a piece of paper and write all the positive things about this guy. Then everytime you have doubts look at that paper and think to yourself I've got it pretty good with this guy. Since you guys weren't really related you shouldn't focus on the past. This happens often. Just a part of people and their hormones there is nothing wrong with it. You were close it's.
Good Luck!
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Hi,
first of all, I think that if you are not over your ex, you shouldn't be in another relationship. The fact that you are comparing him to your ex shows that you are not ready to move on yet. There is nothing wrong with that. It takes time to move on.
I don't know if it was a good idea to date your ex's best friend. It's a number one deal breaker and it never works out.
I don't think you're going to get past the brother and sister phase. He was probably like a best friend and that's why you were attracted to him in the first place. You can't make that romantic. It is also probably making things awkward between all three of you.
Take a step back and reevaluate your situation. You'll know the right thing to do. I hope I helped.
Good luck,
Ediemarie
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