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two guys: one big problem
I am currently interested in two guys. Guy #1 was interested in me first, and even though I wasn't initially very keen on him, he has grown on me. Guy #2 and I became interested in each other pretty much at the same time. I have had dates with guy #1 but not Guy #2 (so far). Guy #2 knew from the beginning that I was seeing guy #1, but guy #1 didn't know about guy #2 until I told him last night (the relationship with him had been pretty casual until this past week). I know I need to choose one. My question isn't which one to choose, but whether I can feel less guilty before making my decision. Telling these guys was really hard, and guy #1 took the news pretty badly.
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when it comes to love and datin, you need to worry about your happiness. i know it sucks really bad to break someones heart, but you should really go for the one that you feel closer to or can be yourself around more. if youre gonna go with #2 just be like, 'i like you more..blahblahblah' whatever you feel basically, and tell #1 that youre sorry and thats hes a great guy, but youre just not diggin him as much as you need to for you to take it further than what it is. and if you pick #1 just tell #2 that youre still really interested in the guy you started off with.
i know its a hard thing to do, but just keep your happiness in mind, stay positive, and hope for the best.
i hope everythin goes alright! if you need anythin else im here!
x sweeethoney
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Well truth is you can't please everyone. Your going to hurt someone no matter what you do. All you can do it make sure that the guy you don't chose understands that you guys can still be friends. That just because you didn't chose him doesn't mean you don't like him. I know at first being friends seems werid and he may think it stupid. But just be sure he knows the offer is on the table. Because when he moves on (he will move on) he may find that your just another girl that he had dating in the journey of finding his true love. Just remember you can't please everyone someone is going to get upset no matter what you do in life. Not with just guys. It's ok for people to get upset with you it's a part of life. They will get over it in time.
Good Luck!
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