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Please help, i like my best friend and theres more :/


Question Posted Tuesday April 14 2009, 7:22 pm

So, like i said before in my other question, i still love a guy who my best friend, sorry, EX best friend has stolen form me and now, one of his best friends (who is also my best friend) tells me he still likes me but i started to forget him already and i started to like one of his friends who is my other best friend and i really really like him SOOOOO badly...he's a skater, he's cute funny and...i just adore him. i dont know if he feels the same cause he's still getting over a girl but well...who knows, and now i dont know what to do cause i dont want to be with this other boy who still likes me i want to move on from him and try to be into his best friend but i dont want to break his heart cause i really love him though :/ so...the question is: WHAT TO DO?, pleasssssse answer :)Thanks!

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SlushPuppy answered Thursday April 16 2009, 4:18 pm:
Yes, I agree. Figure out how the new guy feels, and then make a decision. I think you're like me: don't want to be single. You'd rather be with SOMEBODY than nobody. Hate to say it, but we're selfish, huh? Look, if you really like the new guy, you can't be leading on "this other boy you still likes me" because it isn't fair. You can't have two guys at once. You can do a little researching before you break the guy's heart (in the nicest way, preferably) by spending a little time with the skater and seeing if you guys can be at LEAST friends, but if your heart is leaning towards the skater, you need to stop wasting the other guy's time. Tell him. It'll suck, but it's necessary. I can totally relate to this. Actually, I'm SO selfish that I couldn't STAND thinking about my ex with his new crush (though she's one of my friends *cough, cough* so it's a little harder) even though my ex has helped me get to know the guy that I left him for better. Anywho, good luck. Go with what feels right, and don't turn back.

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Wednesday April 15 2009, 5:26 pm:
i think you should find out how the new guy feels about you. good luck.

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