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what if you dont love your husband anymore
i have a problem and seriously need some help to figure out what to do i need someone to talk to
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Why don't you love him? Is it because of the way he treats you? Is it an abusive relationship? (Emotionally or physically) If so, you need to do something about it and get out of it as soon as possible.
Or is it because the love is fading, you don't see him enough, you're having communication problems, or something along those lines? If it's one of those, just talk to him. Tell him how you feel and ask him to be honest with you.
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if you don't love him, you have to let him know, or else you will be living un-happy, but make sure you really don't love him anymore..
it might be heart braking for him.. but you come first and you cant be with someone you dont love.
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You can't be in a marriage if you are truely un happy. I mean is it something you two could work out if you both really tried? If now and you dont see a single way around it than you two need to talk. Do you have kids? what about them. you need to have it planned because when you tell your children. your going to have to answer a lot more questions like where are they going to say when will they see the other parent. where will they be living. you will have to deal with tears.
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First, you have to figure out if this is a passing thing or a permanent thing.
If it is a passing thing, try planning something romantic to remember why you fell in love with them in the first place. A picnic in the park, for example.
If it is a permanent thing, you have to evaluate your situation. Do you have kids? Can you support yourself financially? How do you feel about divorce? Is the situation totally unreconcilable?
Once you have the above questions sorted out, it may be time for a divorce. Or, if you have kids, you may wait until they are older. If you need to wait a while to become financially independent, then wait.
Divorce is not always the answer, but it is always an option. Better to leave now than to stay with someone you don't love for your entire life.
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Don't feel bad we fall in and out of love everyday,we all like change some of us are terrified of it, the best thing to do is resure your feelings for your husband it can be a small phase, or the real deal, on your behalf its okay to fall out of love jus be prepared for his outcome, and falling out of love with someone, opens the door for the one you were ment to love all along!
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