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i give up [this is long] sorry.
so there's this guy that liked me [let's call him bob], then pretty much played me got back with his ex girlfriend. it has been almost 4 months now that he's been with her and we haven't talked at all unless i was the one who tried to text him or something. and over spring break i was babysitting. one of the little kids got into my phone and started calling a bunch of people in my contacts because i accidentlaly left it out and my phone is a peice of crap so it doesn't lock. well. one of the people the kid called was bob. apparently the kid just screamed into the phone and hung up. well. i got a couple texts from bob and he was saying wow cool, i know you hate me you dont have to lie that your babysitting and i was liek im not lying !! then i realized the little kid got into my phone. so then. we started talking. he immediatley told me that him and his gf.. [lets call her beeyotch] had to take a little break but that thye're fine now and stuff. then he was really upset about the past week. and i was trying to make him fele better, get him to be positive, make him laugh yuh know? and he kept saying like, "thats cute" and stuff. and then he said, "sometimes when i see you i think, i wish i was with her." so then we talked for like ever. the next day is easter and we were talking really flirtily [sp?] and i was so so so happy but i had to keep reminding myself that he is with beeyotch. but he kept saying im awesome and flirting and saying that he didnt know how i did it but i made him happy. and i was glowing. so happy. because ive been in love with bob. i have. so then it was all good. we talked all day like 2 days straight. but anyways. im so happy. i see him in school he wasnt with beeyotch in the morning. she kept giving me the death stare in the hallways and intentionally passing the room he is in. i wasn't intimidated. then he saw me and he waved at me i just smiled really big :]]]]] and then. before lunch. i see him with beeyotch and her friend and beeyotch is touching his back and they're all laughing. i got SO upset. so then we have the class that bobs in with me and whenever i see him without her it makes me happy. but she was there. with him. at the door. i was pissed. hes leading me on so all that happened. he kinda talked to me but not really. then i got in his face and told him i was upset. and then we left and i sent him this really long text message almost 8 text messages telling him how i feel and hes like.. im not leading you on, i still like you idk what to do.
and now im just liek wow. reall you so are leading me on. and hes like alright fine. and i was like whatever. and hes like "i dont know what to tell you." and i was like, ok. and then he was like, id liek to tell you what you wanna hear ti make you happy cause i really want you to be happy." and i was like, dont. and he was like, i wont. and i was like, great thanks. and he was like, you dont believe me do you. and i was like, what is there to belive? and he was like, nevermind. and i was like so youre not even gonna explain urself? and he was like, i just want you to know that i do care about you alot. and i said, i wish that was enough. and he was like, i promise one day ill make everything up to you. and i was like, im not gonna hold my breath, nor am i gonna wait for that day. then he never texted me after that.
i dont know what to do. i dont know what to do anout any of this. can someone please help me, m begging you.
btw im 16/f. bob is 16/m
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The guys is leading you on because he can. The bigger the lie the more willing we are to believe it. Deep down you want him back.Youmay only want him back to win. The thing is, He played you before. He's playing you now and also the other girl. You aren't going to find happiness with this guy. Yes you may get him for a short period of time. It will end badly more than likely. As soon as this guy gets a girl he immediately starts working on other girls. You probably aren't the only one that he is leading on. There is probably a girl number 3, 4 and even 5. I think you should really knock off any contact with him and look for another guy. It will do 2 things. One, it will make him jealous if he actually cares. Two, it will get your mind off of stuff while you try to find someone else. I'd chat up his friends and when he comes around ignore him and say you gotta leave. I dont see much reason to be nice and he needs his mind played with.
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