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my friend&crush + his family.


Posted Sunday May 3 2009, 1:08 pm

18-female.

do guys like it when your close with their family? i've been friends with this guy for awhile but i have also had a crush on him :p well all his brothers and sisters absolutely love me! this guy is 17, he has three sisters. their 15, 9 and 5. and one brother who is 11. this guy is my cousins neighbor also and im over there alot so they always see me. well last night me and my friend pulled up to my cousins and his younger brother and sister were outside playing so i was like nate!! (his bro) and he was like hey! and i started playing lacrosse with him and i started talking to his sister. well then my friend/crush came outside and was like just messing around with everyone and me my friend and his sister whose 9 wen...

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my ex gave me something..


Posted Sunday May 3 2009, 10:33 am

when we first started dating my ex gave me a little heart necklace with our names on it. we broke up about a week ago but ill be seeing him today. should i give him it back? do guys take it as an insult? like a side of me wants to keep it to remember my first love but then the other side of me wants to get over him as soon as possible...what should i do?

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what would a guy perfer?


Posted Sunday May 3 2009, 12:28 am

a skinny girl or a a thick girl. not fat but curvy.

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I'm a married woman cheating with a married man


Posted Sunday May 3 2009, 12:01 am

I am married woman having an affair with a married man. The guy happens to be a client at a company where I work. We always flirted with each other when he came to the office. I knew he was married from inception and vice versa. One day he came to the office and gave me his phone number and asked me to call him, when I did, he told me straight up what it was that he wanted. I thought he was rather bold, but admired the fact that he was so honest. The affair has been going on for one year now. Here is how my story goes. I have been married for approximately nine years, I was nothing but the perfect wife to my husband. I never even dreamed of cheating on him. I cooked, clean, and did everything to make him happy, but he was the type of...

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go to iowa or dont


Posted Saturday May 2 2009, 11:38 pm

so im engaged to this guy..have been for two years... he lives in iowa and i in cali..dont worry he just moved there.. well he went there cuz i thought i didnt wanna get married now i do and i know for sure. my family dont want me to talk to him and dont know i do and i think im gonna just up and leave and marry him.. is it a bad idea. i dotn have a job there and he hasnt gotten a place yet i was gonna wait a lil while before i go but wat should i do

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kay so, i love both .


Posted Saturday May 2 2009, 11:27 pm

kay so,
i like these to guys one is named robert and one is named david.
david has a girlfriend but i really like him.
and robert always cancels when we are supposed to hang out.
what do i do?
thanks to who helps :)

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not working out with a guy,not sure what to do


Posted Saturday May 2 2009, 7:46 pm

ok well.......I'm with this guy. It's only been a few weeks. It all started on a night out when he kissed me and it kind of went from there...I went with it cos I like him and it was really fun so...it was good for a while. But you see,I've liked this other guy for like I dunno,three years or so now? You know the way there's always one person you REALLY like even if you sorta like other people? Well,yeah it's like that...So now it's not really workin out with this guy and I still like the other guy obviously,since I never stopped liking him. Don't really know how to handle the situation and me and the guy I'm with hang in the same group so if a break up is messy,it would be terrible...So yeah,any ideas?

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I lovee this dude


Posted Saturday May 2 2009, 12:19 pm

I know it's long, I just REALLYY need some advice, please..

Well it all start August 2008, the new school year, & this new boy M had came to football practice, & im a trainer. Like in September we started talking, I wasn't really feelin him cause I was talking to someone else, its was like i was torn between him & this boy C. Me & M stopped talking like December, & it was a break of school, when we came back he started talking to a girl name H & i got real jealous so I started talking to him again, but then he was trying to talk to both of us at the same time, & I wasn't having that, so then I stopped talking to him & he got with H. They didn't work out & then he got with a girl named A. Th...

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Would this make me a bitch? ;3


Posted Saturday May 2 2009, 11:31 am

16/f

Right, so i really like this guy(who is 16), but the problem is he has a girlfriend, but liek two weeks before he started dating her he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said no cause i didn't think i lieked him liek that, anyway now i do. Would it be so dreadful for me to flirt with him a little and try n win him back? Any tips are useful, ty.
:3

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What is with my crush?!


Posted Friday May 1 2009, 10:43 pm

Okay, me & my crush Kyle are good friends but recently I learned he's a player like 22nd I think he said to me "I 'like' alot of girls here." we were at are groups normal bowling day. After he said that he completely ignored me. Something else he said was "Guys think girls are cute when they mess-up, exspealiy when they like the guy." Uhg... He's a shy, player though... He acts like it, but I fear if he does am I just another girl or what? He's (almost) 15, shy, tall, blonde, smart & a player.
I'm 15/ female, shy, averge hieght, brunette(dyed red) & hardly crush.
Help would be awsome it's bad enough my enemy T is flirting with him. -_-'
Help? Please, I'm beggin.
-Sakura Kaori

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Please herlp me and her


Posted Friday May 1 2009, 9:38 pm

My ex is talkinto me alot i ask her if she loves me she says yes and she says she is going to break up with her boyfriend for me and of course i love her and i wanna be with her but she is leaving him for me and because hes a jerk and i dont want her to get hurt bye me i love her to much pleae help me!!!

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Is this reletionship real?


Posted Friday May 1 2009, 9:35 pm

Okay so i was in a relationship with this guy and he was so sweet he was funny amazingly cute and would always make me happy and he told me he loves me,But we met online and i really liked him,but he just stopped getting online and i don't no if i should call him,But now im in a relationship with this other guy and hes really sweet and caring but no really cute and likes to talk to me,but i don't no if im just with him cause the way he acts reminds me of my ex,Please help me,What do i do?

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Movin forward


Posted Friday May 1 2009, 5:35 pm

Heyy, so I been known as a prude girl and ya I am but I'm thinkin about acutally doing something with a guy but I'm so soooooo scared and don't know how to start doing stuff withguys once we start kisssing. I mean can u you help me through this and tell me how to loosin up a litte ya know?

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i dont know about him anymore


Posted Friday May 1 2009, 12:05 pm

alright, well me and my boyfriend brokre up because of alot of random things. But he says that i am his bestfriend still? Yet the inly time he talks to me is when he either is bored orr needsd somethiing. its never "hey ____, how're you". ughh i dont know anymore

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Boyfriend trouble..what's new


Posted Friday May 1 2009, 10:24 am

Alright here's the deal.
My boyfriend (16) and I (15) recently took a break from each other because I found him too clingy. It has been nearly a week, and.. let's call him chuckNow chuck thinks were dating again. But we are not. I've tried talking to him but it doesn't work. He has my name in his MSN name again, and is telling everyone were back on, I usually have no problem with confrontation, but in this case, I simply cannot tell him were not dating. Now I've sent him a e-mail telling him were not dating,
but I don't know if he'll get the message in time and i don't want him to be to hurt..
Any advice you can provide will help a lot, i am sure..
Thank you so much in advancw (:

Sincerly
CueTheLights.

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Is this for the best?


Posted Thursday April 30 2009, 11:13 pm

Well, a little bit ago I just had a serious discussion with my boyfriend and we decided to take a break and just be friends. We had been dating for half a year and it just got to the point where [ he's very outgoing 24/7, I'm mostly serious and have fun when I feel it's truly a fun moment ] he'd always have a sort of complaint of me every month whether it be I didn't hold his hand he always had to do it, I never talk about my emotions and have deep emotional conversations, etc. He just seemed very sensitive, which I find nothing wrong with, I just like a LITTLE sensitivity in my guy but for the most part to be a typical guy. I know it doesn't sound too bad on here, but whenever you're in the moment, it's weird. Well it just started feelin...

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do feelings really change?


Posted Thursday April 30 2009, 9:03 pm

i dated this guy for almost 9 months. he ended it with me last saturday and i was completely devestated. he said that he doesn't have that "spark" anymore but he still loves me "more than a friend but enough to be in a relationship with" and he wants to hang out alot over the summer and still be really close friends and he said that fate will take it from there and if its meant to be blahblah...so my question is do feelings really change like that? and can i do anything this summer to help get them back? like maybe take him to the place we first hung out? idk help pleasee.

17/f

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what gets a guy to come back...


Posted Thursday April 30 2009, 7:04 pm

which behavior is more likely to get a guy to get back together with you:

A. telling him you still love him and being clingy
or
B. pretending to have fun without him

i'm going to prom (with my ex)and i would do anything to get him back..any advice pleasee

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cheating boyfriend


Posted Thursday April 30 2009, 5:26 pm

I just found out that my exboyfriend that I just broke up with becouse he wanted to have sex with me when we have only been going out a week and now i have found out that he's cheated on me with at least 2 girls and he's got one of them pregnant iam so mad what should i do how do I get over it?

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"friend zone"


Posted Thursday April 30 2009, 2:48 pm

hi. 17/m.
whenever i get close to a girl..i always enter the "friend zone". And once i enter said zone..i cant leave. So basically, there's this girl that i like. We recently have been getting close, and i asked her out...she said "i dont want to ruin our friendship...." etc etc, and that maybe one day there may be something ( i told her it was a dare after she said no..so it wouldnt be awkward later on).

The next day, i see her and her two friends, and she walks away. When her friends see me..they just look at me...i asked the girl i like, why she was looking..she said, "nothing...dont worry...it was good..."

i think she's got here eye on another guy, but what my question ...

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