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go to iowa or dont
so im engaged to this guy..have been for two years... he lives in iowa and i in cali..dont worry he just moved there.. well he went there cuz i thought i didnt wanna get married now i do and i know for sure. my family dont want me to talk to him and dont know i do and i think im gonna just up and leave and marry him.. is it a bad idea. i dotn have a job there and he hasnt gotten a place yet i was gonna wait a lil while before i go but wat should i do
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Decide what is best for you. Stay home and have some money from your parents and your parents support, or Leave and risk all of this for someone you love. I would go for the second, but it is up to you. Hope this helps!!!
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Stay in California. You don't have a job, I'm pretty sure he doesn't, and he doesn't have a place to live.
Does that sound like a good life to you? Wait until he's more settled & has his life together before you do anything rash.
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You should wait. Once he has a job and a place to live, he will be able to support you until you get a job there. Don't move to Iowa on a whim because you think you want to marry this man. A move that big is a huge deal whether it seems like it right now or not. If he wants to marry you, he will give you some time. And if you want to marry him, you will give him time to get a place to stay.
Hope this helps and good luck!
Darby(:
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